Sexuality questioning.

[Seraph]

I don't know why but, I'm CONSTANTLY questioning my sexuality. Why? I'm the type of person that thinks things too much. Recently, it's my sexuality. I'm constantly questio,,ning myself whether or not I'm hetero or homosexual, when, in reality, I have never shared or felt any sort of sentiments towards a male, unless he's my relative. On the contrary, I've had two crushes and fallen in-love once (all three cases are towards females). I don't have a problem recognizing another individual's traits, but it's the thought of constantly questioning myself that annoys and saddens me based on stupid and minor details such as "I'm more domestic; y do more housework than manwork (I rarely do some manwork, and it's only when I'm in the mood)" and that attitude of classifying what I do as gay or not is torturing me.

[Solar]

unless you've been thinking about having sex with a dude, it doesn't seen like you're questioning your sexuality so much as your non-conformity to stupid, and frankly, unrealistic notions of gender roles within society

[Nostalgia]

The only thing that defines whether or not you're gay is your willingness to develop romantic feelings for and/or have sex with men. It's not about doing housework, so don't let that stress you out. As for questioning it, I think the issue is that a number of people have been coming out of the closet in recent years because homosexuality is becoming more acceptable in society. It's having a psychological effect on you because now all of a sudden, it seems like it can be so much more likely that you're gay or bi. In actuality, it's just a result of societal changes. Recognizing that a man is attractive is different from actually being attracted to him. If you have no desire to have sex with men, then you're not gay. That's all you have to figure out. (Hope this helps.)

[dakirbymaster]

unless you've been thinking about having sex with a dude, it doesn't seen like you're questioning your sexuality so much as your non-conformity to stupid, and frankly, unrealistic notions of gender roles within society

this this so much this

really be who you are and love who you will, everyone else be damned. gender is but a fallacy created by what society deems acceptable, and if you feel like you don't fit in what's accepted so be it.

Here's a quote I live by and think everyone else should live by as well.

"Be yourself; everyone else is taken." - Oscar Wilde

[Juggernaut6]

What they all said. Questioning sexuality is pretty normal so don't feel weird because of it. For example, I know I'm hetero but sometimes I feel like I might be asexual. But then I see a hot chick walk by in yoga pants and I almost crash my car, so I'm like "Nevermind. Definitely hetero."

[The Conquerer]

Gender concept doesn't always overlap with sexuality. There's this dude I'm cool with in college, his mannerisms are slightly feminine (he hangs out with a lot of girls, so he picks up some traits), but he has a girlfriend and is straight. Based on what you're saying, I don't think you appear effeminate-just not much of a handy man. As others have said, don't get too bogged down by gender roles, humans themselves are composites of many character traits, regardless if they hide them or not.

[turninto]

unless you've been thinking about having sex with a dude, it doesn't seen like you're questioning your sexuality so much as your non-conformity to stupid, and frankly, unrealistic notions of gender roles within society

thirding this

unless you're leaving something out, all of the things you're talking about have absolutely nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with outdated gender stereotypes

[Silverslide]

Won't repeat what Sol said, but it happens to every guy.

[Cosmic+Amarna]

Yeah really everything that has been said. Also I may add, that if you have a friend that is a male it is still possible for you to love dude without being a homosexual. It is a good thing if one can have the capacity to love. Like everyone else has said, what you described isn't really about homosexuality. Unless you are wanting to have sex with your homies, but if not then probably not.

[chihuahuaman]

Oh no,

You do housework,

So totally gay.

I'm fourthing what Solar said.

[xCursedXRebellionx]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA YOU'RE GAY LMFAO

[Zephyr]

I think that's just a matter of questioning which roles appear more male/female but in reality, that's just what the person wants to do and the perception of what roles appear to be is just a stereotype/generalization. I really don't think this has anything to do with sexuality.

[Dogenzaka]

what do you masturbate to?

if same sex:
> you're gay
if opposite sex:
> you're straight
if both:
> you're bi
if you own genitals, have no desire for sex/masturbation and you've already experienced puberty:
> you're asexual
if you masturbate to other things:
> you might be a pedo/bestiophile/weirdo

[Silh]

one time I was balls deep in this dude so I gave him the ol' reach around and he had a hard-on how gay is that

[XIII Heartless]

Won't repeat what Sol said, but it happens to every guy.

Lies. I have no doubt that I love pussy.

Nevertheless, just because you prefer housework to labor doesn't make you gay. There are plenty of stay-at-home fathers these days.