sex before marriage.

[padlock]

While i believe every should be allowed to have there own view on the subject, and everyone can do what they want, i wouldn't dream of telling people how to live there life, I think look back at my own sexual experiences that i probably would have benefited to at least waiting til finding someone who i could at least dream of spending the rest of my life with them, and that is probably what i recommend to anyone else: wait til' you have someone you know you would benefit from having sex with them, and make sure it isn't meaningless.

[Agoraphobia]

I don't really care if someone has sex before marriage, but I still think having sex before 18 is unnerving. That's because I'm one of those faggots who would rather not have sex unless I'm in a good relationship.

[Haeralis]

I honestly am one of the few who finds it sinful; why have sex if you dont care about the other person and are just using him to fulfill your lustful desires? I say wait until you find the right person; but thats just me.

[loke13]

I honestly am one of the few who finds it sinful; why have sex if you dont care about the other person and are just using him to fulfill your lustful desires? I say wait until you find the right person; but thats just me.

Whats wrong with having sex for pleasure? You're hot the other person is hot, your both young why not bone.

[Aqua.]

Like, I would wait, for the time my bf asks me to marry him. Sure, we won't wait till the wedding night but at least its the person we're gonna marry and he was still the first.

Well idk that's my ideal situation.

[Oberon]

Whats wrong with having sex for pleasure? You're hot the other person is hot, your both young why not bone.

I like your style, matey.

[Monkey]

I honestly am one of the few who finds it sinful; why have sex if you dont care about the other person and are just using him to fulfill your lustful desires? I say wait until you find the right person; but thats just me.

I got you bromigo.

[Arausio]

its fun.

[krexia]

Sex is natural, fun and healthy. I have no problem with it so long as all involved are consenting adults.

If I have children, I hope they do experiment with different partners before thinking about settling down permanently. Making a lifelong commitment to someone without exploring your own sexuality in general, or your potential physical relationship with that particular person, seems like an awfully big and unnecessary risk.

Am I the only one who finds overcoming that initial, sexual awkwardness with your spouse a bit romantic?

Sure, learning about each other sexually is romantic. But it's romantic whether or not you're married at the time.

I also believe that love and sex are not synonymous. Contrary to what the popular opinion on KHI has been, I have always firmly believed that love and sex are two separate entities.

Hear, hear. It's totally possible to have sex without love, and to feel love without sexual attraction.

Then there's the girls and women and people being used for sex.

Then there are girls who use men for sex. Because sex is fun. So long as both partners understand that it's just sex, no harm and no foul.

I honestly am one of the few who finds it sinful; why have sex if you dont care about the other person and are just using him to fulfill your lustful desires?

What if you both agree to satisfy your lust with each other, with no strings attached? Where's the harm in consenting to mutual physical pleasure?

[BrightEyes]

I don't really care if someone has sex before marriage, but I still think having sex before 18 is unnerving. That's because I'm one of those faggots who would rather not have sex unless I'm in a good relationship.

mmhmm, that's me too. if i'm in a relationship, i either really like them, or a kind of like them, and if its the second, there's no way in heck i'd feel comfortable being sexually intimate with the guy.

Also, for me, its a commitment issue. you have to be 100% committed to the person to really be in a serious, well-balanced relationship, and i won't have anything less than that. But its hard to necessarily have that unless you really know them, and have agreed to stay together for the rest of your life. So, i worry a little if i see one of my friends having serious relationship issues and being sexually intimate, because i think, "she/he isn't taking this seriously enough" and even though i don't really mind it, for me, it's just better if i personally wait till i've found someone i really love and get married. And anyway, if you really love them, waiting till your honeymoon probably won't be that much of a problem.

[krexia]

mmhmm, that's me too. if i'm in a relationship, i either really like them, or a kind of like them, and if its the second, there's no way in heck i'd feel comfortable being sexually intimate with the guy.

To be honest when I was younger I thought that I'd never feel comfortable having sex unless I knew and trusted my partner. I didn't have an problem with people who enjoyed sex without commitment, I just didn't feel I personally was confident enough to try it. So my first two sexual partners were people I loved and trusted.

But through them I learned to be much more confident about myself and my body. I learned to distinguish between sexual intimacy and true intimacy, and that neither is necessary for the other, both of which I think are very important lessons. Sex can be emotionally intimate and serious, but it doesn't have to be.

[Nozomi Ai]

I would like to wait (mostly because im kind of religious) and thats my ideal goal, but i dont have a problem with other people doing it. Its not my concern what they do. But really the idea of actually going all the way with someone im not commited to for life is kind of nasty to me. I know there is all the issue about compatibility and all, but the whole if he would be good and all wouldnt be much concern to me in the end. I mean i wouldnt know much of what "good" is anyway. I admit i dont know much on the subject but like i said Im more of the waiting type.

[Zulkir]

I honestly am one of the few who finds it sinful; why have sex if you dont care about the other person and are just using him to fulfill your lustful desires? I say wait until you find the right person; but thats just me.

I got you bromigo.

Chastity brah's4life. Sex outside of marriage is a no no for me.

[Square Ninja]

Sex can be emotionally intimate and serious, but it doesn't have to be.

Thread should have ended right there.

[pokepotterkhkids]

Technically, it's supposed to go against my religious beliefs, but personally, I believe that it's up to the individual person, FREE WILL