Sorafan's Got a Problem-Need advice or help please

[Nintandy]

I agree, some great advice. I think what Gildragon is trying to say is that if you do not believe in yourself and you feel like giving up, or you only allow yourself to see the crueler side of things, just have some faith. See the situation from other angles, and keep at it. That way you can learn to appreciate that there's usually a better way to solve a problem, rather than to dwell on the negatives.

-- Andy

[Maverick E.S]

*just read that rep you gave me*

Srry for the late notice but um lets see here....

You can be something you want to be if you work hard to acheive it, believe me I've been through the same type of thing, just try to be what you are tying to be(if its what you feel like you should do) and in time it will work.

[Snow Candy]

Okay then, thanks. :D I'll definately take that advice also! And no problem about the rep. :D

[Gildragon]

To clarify even further basically what I am saying is that since you already recognize that you are pessimistic you want to be optimistic. Try and pay attention to a situation that you look at (like you might beleive the worst of someone) At the moment you recognize that you are making a pessimistic decision or thought, (EXAMPLE:saying something bad will happen) at that moment say the opposite or make a positive thought, even if you don't beleive it.

Bad example below but it gets the Idea across
Like you might think someone will give away a secret about you. once you think "You know what? She is going to let all these people know this..I shouldn't have told her. I am an idiot."

AT that moment even if you don't believe it say "This person is my friend and I can trust her, I am glad I have someone I can share my secrets with her. I am intelligent"

Now that is not going to make you an optimist right away but like medicine, if you stay in it, it will help you out