Being Bullied

[blinkboy211]

Yes but you said i told him not to try so really you took my words out of context. He can try all he wants but until he gets there then i will say he may want to aim smaller. Hell if you aim smaller and achieve that you then can slowly move your goals higher and higher to where your next is being a billionare.

But this is about being bullied and if the person has figured out a way to solve this by now then i have nothing new to say to them.

[The Grim Reaper]

Originally Posted by blinkboy211

But this is about being bullied and if the person has figured out a way to solve this by now then i have nothing new to say to them.

I haven't figured out a way to solve it yet. I've tried everything suggested in this thread except record him and beat him up. I can't record him because I don't the money to buy one of those little recording machines and I doubt I can beat him up like I did in the past because he's much bigger now and plus I'm trying not to get suspended or in any trouble.

It's gotten to the point where I go to the office every day to report what he's doing to the principal and the counselor. I have no classes with him, but the teacher of my 3rd period class let him stay with us throughout most of the class. Every time I looked up, I'd catch him looking at me and he'd just smile and then turn around and act like he wasn't doing anything.

[Thor.]

Well that's almost frightening. . .

Report him for sexual harassment. Nothing says sweet revenge like a gay writeup.

I'm sure he's touched you, or said something to you, in a way that could be construed as sexual.

[Samber]

Ok, I was going to say to ignore him, but apparantly this guy is too much of an ass. So here is my five cents worth:

This may seem strange, and it will probably be VERY hard, but I think you should be REALLY nice to him. Say things like
"I love your shoes" or
"How are you today?"

And whenever he insults you just be freakishly nice. This makes him frustrated and he really would have no reason to insult you further, because what you just said was a kind statement. I would suggest testing it out for a week or two and see how it works.

[Thor.]

Umm. . . that won;t work. . . .just so you know. . . . .

[dark___edge]

Kick him in the balls. That's what I do to guys that really bug me. But anyways.... that's kinda like last resort sorta thing. Tell your parents about it but if it get's very serious like... he's beating you up or trying to set you on fire. Call the police and say it's harrassment. Cuz it is true. It is harassment and he should not get away with it. I don't think it's fair that you have to switch classes because he is there. Just tell him to "F*ck off and get a life". This loser definitely doesn't have one. Try to scare him and create fear so that he avoids you and doesn't bug you anymore. I hope this helps... oh yeah and the dude really needs help. He's probably acting that way because he's teased or abused at home. So he has to take it out on a target and that's you.

[Axel_Da_Flamer]

Originally Posted by blinkboy211

Yeah that was ok until you said billionare. Wont happen. You have too high of dreams kid you might want to switch them lower so they arent crushed later on.

well hey ya never know. It could happen, and it couldn't happen. It's a part of life.

[Jolts]

Wow... Sounds like a real jerk. I've had problems like that even since pre-k. Take last month at a family picknik, I got into a fight with a kid there. It started with me asking if I could use the scooter he was using and it ended with him swinging a baseball bat (wooden) at me. If u dont beleive me I've got scars to prove it. Anyways, here are my tips.

1. Private school.
at private schools the teachers don't take any crap from bullies.

2. Watch this clip from the show Burn Notice. Link: YouTube - Burn Notice: Learning Bully Psychology

3. Get an upperclassman to talk/intimidate him.

Hope this helps.

[Thor.]

Sexual harassment . . . .. . .. . .

[gottaluvkh1992]

a person is evil to me at school, try to get it so your alone cuz i managed to and he was like "you safe", "you cool." so try to and then have a go at him

[Proline]

Uh.

Take a pencil, and shank him in the leg, then pull it out and then punch the wound. Next, break his nose by kneeing him or punching him in the face. Once broken, hit it again. Charlie horse the guy, then kick him in the ribs. Keep punching him in the same leg that you charlie horsed, until he starts fighting back. Go tell the principal that you were merely putting up an act of self defense, and he didn't know when to stop, so you had to go to extreme measures.

[Nintandy]

What a jerk.. he seriously sounds mentally unstable >_>.

I've always been direct and got the person face to face and asked what their problem is. Often they're pretty timid and they just buckle in, with pretty pathetic reasons. I'm generally a very nice person, and you don't need to yell at them, but it would help if you knew their motive, if there is one. In this case though I don't think that would work. Soo..

Second, parents can help. You need a happy life outside of school, and if you can have support from all angles it is a big confidence boost. For me, friends have always been the people to turn to, because if you're alone in this, you're vulnerable. Talking about your issues is a good way to get things off your shoulders.

The teachers do seem to care but are not actually doing anything about it. Counselling and so forth could work, but it sounds like he genuinely needs to be kicked out of the school. I certainly think his parents need to get involved, and be called in to speak with the school. That guy has issues, and from what it sounds, he's totally not worth it.

I know I've probably just repeated everything, but hey.. that's my take ^^'. I hope it goes well for you.

-- Andy

[Yannis]

Originally Posted by Jay Chou

Uh.

Take a pencil, and shank him in the leg, then pull it out and then punch the wound. Next, break his nose by kneeing him or punching him in the face. Once broken, hit it again. Charlie horse the guy, then kick him in the ribs. Keep punching him in the same leg that you charlie horsed, until he starts fighting back. Go tell the principal that you were merely putting up an act of self defense, and he didn't know when to stop, so you had to go to extreme measures.

Pretty violent.. O________________________O;

It isnt self defense if you start the fight. I do selfdefense -training and I can say that you´re very unmature, maybe 14-years-old or younger, who wants to be the king of sandbox. You gotta get help in solving problems.

[gottaluvkh1992]

Originally Posted by Jay Chou

Uh.

Take a pencil, and shank him in the leg, then pull it out and then punch the wound. Next, break his nose by kneeing him or punching him in the face. Once broken, hit it again. Charlie horse the guy, then kick him in the ribs. Keep punching him in the same leg that you charlie horsed, until he starts fighting back. Go tell the principal that you were merely putting up an act of self defense, and he didn't know when to stop, so you had to go to extreme measures.

how do you expect her to do all that on a bully when he wll probally be surrounded by his friends?

[Proline]

Originally Posted by gottaluvkh1992

how do you expect her to do all that on a bully when he wll probally be surrounded by his friends?

Well, if you can do it quick enough, they'll be in shock and probably run away due to the excessive amount of violence shown.

If need be, shank them in the legs and arms with the pencil as well.

All in good fun.

@Thraxe - No shit it's not self defense, hence the reason I said:

Go tell the principal that you were merely putting up an act of self defense, and he didn't know when to stop, so you had to go to extreme measures.

The teachers and principal will most likely believe TGR more than the bully due to the large amount of times that she's had to visit them.

King of the sandbox my ass. I've never been in a single fight my whole life =/ I merely know multiple tactics in which I could hurt someone if I need be.

I do karate and I'm the belt prior to black, so uh ya, I do self defense training too. You ain't special kid.

No point in saying what's already been said, so I devised a problem in which most people would not consider. Plus, contrary to popular belief, violence does solve everything.

Lol@unmature. Not a word.