Being Bullied

[SuperEclipse]

I got bullied in school untill I got to high school, people talked about behind my back in high school.

Though I guess that they thought I was crazy, so they didn't want to pick on me in high school, ahaha.

I need to learn to stand up for myself, I still let people walk all over me..<.<

[CAB_IV]

lol, i bet he is gay, or atleast confused. . use that to your advantage. its cruel, but call him gay. if he is a jackass, it will piss him off. if he is gay, it will stab him like there is no tommorow. after calling him whatever, tell him off for being the foolish jerk he is, then leave. make sure you make him look more sad and ridiculous each time.

[Sir Meta Knight]

Have you told any of your friends?

Get a friend to sneak in a video camera and secretly record the jerkoff while he's bullying you, and give that to the authorities. And he's obviously gay if he's doing that. .__. Or you have a maniac on your hands, Grim, some obsessive-compulsive stalker. Creepy.

[SuperEclipse]

Well most kid bully because there mom or dad doesn't love them or care..

Form what I seen you smart, so I'm sure you find way to work this out.. Get a older friend to go with and talk to him, ask why you two can't friends..

Also his a guy picking on girl? Wow talk about new low.. But yea do try to video tape it, if its older guy picking on girl. He can get into big trouble. ((if u can get him on video tape pushing you))

Most guys would kick his ass if they seen him picking on girl.. If no guy as jumped in after seeing you get pushed around etc.. Then I really feel sorry for the guys at you're school.

[Massive Attack]

Get your parents involved, it works every time.

[Steamboatwillis]

Beat him up! or start bulling him

[Libra]

Simple solution, turn it around on him. He loves to make fun of you, when you see him make fun of him before he gets the chance. Get people to laugh at him. Get other people to do the same. It'll put him in his place. Also be creative about it too. Say things he can't come back to.

If you don't like that idea, talk to your guidance counselor. Get an appointment with him and the guidance counselor and find out why he is doing such. It will also put him under the spot light. Maybe he'll have to check in with him/her every week, as well as you. It will eventually stop.

[SuperEclipse]

Originally Posted by Steamboatwillis

Beat him up! or start bulling him

That isn't going to help anything..

[violent_anger]

rocky training montage until you're so buff that he'll either come out about being gay, or run away because you have 40 more pounds of muscle then him

[sonic-speed]

Originally Posted by SuperEclipse

That isn't going to help anything..

It'll help with his self esteem. I say go for it.

[meganwashere->]

dude this is terrible.

I would come kick his ass for you. I do kickboxing everyday so i could totally deck him. "wink" and im a girl he wouldn't see whats coming to him.

but i dont know where you live and neither do i have a car. or a license.

but seriously dont take crap from this kid.

[Xidon]

Originally Posted by Steamboatwillis

Beat him up! or start bulling him

really mature advice...

well i see 3 possible solutions here.

1st try to bully him verbally (I don't mean OMG n00B GTFO!!! and offend his mom), try to mock him and show him that you are not scared of him, the bully will back down, but in more simple minded bullies (or idiots if you prefer) this may couse more rage, but if you decide to go by this approach stick with it couse if you back down it will only get worse.

2nd is similar to the first, be confident in yourself, ignore the bully and talk to him and defend yourself only when you have to, but don't get pushed around

3rd and teh best one!

Originally Posted by violent_anger

rocky training montage until you're so buff that he'll either come out about being gay, or run away because you have 40 more pounds of muscle then him

You go Hulk on him... just wear a dress.... or maybe not you may impress possible dates XDD

[Roxas9001]

U can make him be afraid of u by scaring him.

[Azanulbizare]

Originally Posted by The Grim Reaper

In the Sixth Grade, one of my classmates began bullying me. Of course, I fought him, and he stopped bullying me for about a week, then he started back. Now, at the beginning Seventh Grade year, I thought it would stop, but it didn't. In fact, in the Seventh Grade, when I was sitting behind him, he would turn all the way around in his desk and insult me. He did this throughout the whole year. I did say something back, but no matter what I said he just countered it with the same insults and he did that every single day of my Seventh Grade year. In Eighth grade, I made sure I had no classes with him, but I had to deal with him on the bus, in the hallways, and sometimes I would look up and see him looking into the class room through a window saying stuff. It got worse when I got to High School, which began in the Ninth grade. I made sure that I had no classes with him, but he still bothered me on the bus and in the hallways. It got even worse when his schedule was changed and he was moved into English class with me. He did the same thing he did in Seventh Grade. After a while, the English teacher got tired of him (he would go through her stuff, eat in her class, say junk under his breath, talk when she was talking, etc) and kicked him out of that class. A few weeks later, he was moved into Health class with me. At this point, I couldn't get my schedule changed to get out of that class, so I was stuck. I told the teacher of that class about, and he caught him one day and he made him run fifty times around the gym, but the guy was "I don't care" and he continued to bully me after even the coach talked to him about it. My sophomore year, I still had no classes with him and life on the bus was better, but in the hallways, when he wore a jacket, he swing his jacket around and hit me with it. Now, I have to deal with him at Lunch, on the bus, and in the hallways.

I have no idea what to do about this. I've fought him, told the teacher, told the principal, said stuff back, and tried avoiding him. I don't know what else to do. What do do you guys think I should or does anyone know a solution to this? If you're going to say ignore him, you might as well not post, because when I do ignore him, he starts throwing stuff. One time, he almost hit me in the head with some candy.

Hit him with a wrench.

Just kidding. Ignore the ass; or, better yet, avoid any more confrontation with words. I've done that before, quite a few times actually. Pick at his reason for doing these things without being to blatant. Get him into a conversation, and he'll eventually (Most likely naturally) say something you could use to your advantage.

If the guy has been bothering you that long, there has to be a reason.

That, or he's a dumbass.

[Just put the Knife DOWN]

If he's gay, I'd suggest making out with him. Then he can determine whether you're good in the sack or not. If you aren't, then he'll probably give up on you, and if you are... well that's your own fault.

Of course, I can see why you might not want to do that. Hm.

You'll find Bullies to be the most emotional. I suggest talking to him, as totally anti-sith as that sounds, but hey, nothing else seems to be working. Seek the source of the issue.

If there is none, either he's mentally disturbed, in which case you should then speak to an adult to rectify the situation, or there's something you're neglecting to tell us.