Being the Bearer of bad news

[Deeman]

Why do you even care about this in the first place? Sure, he's your friend, but let him fight his own battles, discover his own treasures.

It's either

1) you tell him the news and lose or maintain your friendship

or 2) you keep quiet and let things role out naturally.

It's really not necessary that you say anything, IMO.

[Disluxia]

Either have her tell him.

Or just tell him

" man , you dont have a chance she doesn't like you there's better people out there"

If he gets upset over a girl that hes never even been involved with he's immature

and if he gets mad at you for being a good friend and telling the truth hes not worth having as a friend

[pk para]

i say let him find out for himself.
Even if ur right hes still going to try.
If ur wrong... =P


And something that one of my friends has told me (me being a boy and her being a girl). She says that theres this boy in school that ANNOYS her little sis. ANNOYS!!! (and not in a playful way). Anywhoo, said boy called said lil sis and asked if she wanted to start dating and she said yes. My friend thought that that was weird so she asked her why. the little sis said "its weird... when they ask you out, its kinda like you fall in love with them" (sorry, i know thats not what she said, but it gets the idea across), and my friend agrees.

Who knows? maybe she will end up saying yes.

Unless she outright despises him....
Tell the friend to get to know the girl first.
When he feels comfortable asking her out, then he should, but only if he knows her.

Even if he thinks she'll say no, he might as well try... unless it would compramise the friendship they might have.


Point being:
for you: shh. let things go their own way.

for him: Give it a try and ask her out, but not to early or it'll make things weird.