Worried

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 04:06 AM

I feel bad because Jerome says he still loves me andwould want me back but I do like Cloud and I don't wanna hurt him anymore. I wanna be his friend. I'm sure he could find so many other girls out there but I think I've killed him v.v; I think he should be able to move on. I know lots of girls perfect for him. I just wish to be a friend that loves him. I'm sure I've cause'd him to wanna kill him self.

What should I do?

I just want him too think about it. I know he'll find someone better.
I can't 'be' with him pyshically. I'm just a dumb girl.

I'm sorry but this is one thing I can do for some advice v_v.
Thanks;

Deeman · 04/27/07, 04:10 AM

What you just said is the perfect thing to say to Jerome. Pour out your feelings to him, and then, if he's a real man, he'll understand. Telling someone that you just want to be friends is hard, but it's the only way that causes the least amount pain. Go with what your heart tells you ;)

I hope that everything turns out right.

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 04:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deeman

What you just said is the perfect thing to say to Jerome. Pour out your feelings to him, and then, if he's a real man, he'll understand. Telling someone that you just want to be friends is hard, but it's the only way that causes the least amount pain. Go with what your heart tells you ;)

I hope that everything turns out right.

That's kinda hard to do. Since he just kinda left. Whic makes me think I've driven him to hurt himself.
I only I could stop him. Or talk to some of his friends.

Deeman · 04/27/07, 04:16 AM

Do you have a way of contacting him over the phone? You may need to do that, if necessary. To go to him in person, however, would be the best way to act. It shows that you care enough to tell him face-to-face how you feel.

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 04:19 AM

I'd love to do that but no. I can't by phone nor face-to-face v.v we're too far away from eachother. We live in two different states. I've done all I could. I don't want him to hurt himself which..i bet he already has v.v;
He's not on MSN or anything so I've killed him..

I can pray for him to be alright but..I doubt he will v.v.

Deeman · 04/27/07, 04:22 AM

^Go ahead and pray. It won't hurt ;)

How about an deep, honest, and sincere letter written in your best writing? It's always nice to get a letter. You may need to find his address, though.

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 04:27 AM

He's back,and alright(as far as I know) I'm happy he didn't do the worst but I do want him to see this, i care for him as a friend,like a sister now since well he hurt me and I don't wanna lose his friendship if we break up again.

Maybe more than a friend but I don't wanna ruin things anymore.
He may be mad about this but I want him to see I do care for him. but yes I like a CGI character..but Jerome'll always have a very important place in my heart.
I'll always be his girlfriend in my eyes.

Deeman · 04/27/07, 04:31 AM

You mean... the person you like is Cloud Strife?

Then... why did you break up with Jerome in the first place?

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 04:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deeman

You mean... the person you like is Cloud Strife?

Then... why did you break up with Jerome in the first place?

He broke up with me O_o;
But I just wanna know,what i can do when He's sad. I want to be able to make him happy without me being hurt.

or advice on what to say to him since all i say messes things up

Deeman · 04/27/07, 04:56 AM

Do you think that since he broke up with you, you might need to stay away? If trying to talk to him will only make things worse, maybe you shouldn't say anything at all. Are you upset because he hurt your feelings and now he wants to come back to you, but you're afraid of him hurting your feelings again?

**Thelonepickle** · 04/27/07, 05:12 AM

Honestly, say I was this Jerome character, if I found out that you were supposedly "in love" with a fictional videogame star, I'd know that you don't understand love at all, and I'd dump you, too.

I don't really understand the situation here. You got dumped, probably because you are "in love" with Cloud, and now you're worried that the guy's not over YOU?

If he takes you back, he's doing you a favour. Please wake up and realize that Cloud isn't alive, and he can't love you back, and what you have for him is NOT love.

Deeman · 04/27/07, 05:14 AM

^Well stated. I felt it might be too harsh to say that, but it's the truth. Cloud is fictional, Jerome is real. The relationship with Cloud can't happen, but the relationship with Jerome can.

Aegis · 04/27/07, 06:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ayumi

I feel bad because Jerome says he still loves me andwould want me back but I do like Cloud and I don't wanna hurt him anymore. I wanna be his friend. I'm sure he could find so many other girls out there but I think I've killed him v.v; I think he should be able to move on. I know lots of girls perfect for him. I just wish to be a friend that loves him. I'm sure I've cause'd him to wanna kill him self.

What should I do?

I just want him too think about it. I know he'll find someone better.
I can't 'be' with him pyshically. I'm just a dumb girl.

I'm sorry but this is one thing I can do for some advice v_v.
Thanks;

...LMFAO

XD OMG. First of all, I saved that on my hard drive for when I need another really good laugh. Second of all, saying you're in love with a fictional character is kinda retarded. Cloud doesn't exist. Get over it and go make a real friend.

HE DUMPED YOU!

Just get over it, and talk to someone about your weird feeling of "love" for Cloud... On second thought, they'll probably think you're stupid. Seriously, go outside and make like an actual friend...

Reno-chan · 04/27/07, 06:30 AM

...^That was nice of you Sir Ass >__>; ....-sigh- Yo Yumer`s =) im gunna say like i did in the PM ...i think you should just be friends with him and not stress on how hes 'acting' >.> sounds to me like hes trying to make some kinda evil guilt trip or something? o.O;; ....he needs to stop acting like a emo-ass and be able to be a 'friend' =/ ...im terrible with advice but theres my 2 cents xD; ~na no da

Ayumi · 04/27/07, 06:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Reno-chan

...^That was nice of you Sir Ass >__>; ....-sigh- Yo Yumer`s =) im gunna say like i did in the PM ...i think you should just be friends with him and not stress on how hes 'acting' >.> sounds to me like hes trying to make some kinda evil guilt trip or something? o.O;; ....he needs to stop acting like a emo-ass and be able to be a 'friend' =/ ...im terrible with advice but theres my 2 cents xD; ~na no da

Thanks Mushu and I'm just gonna ignore the comments about that because I do have friends. There's nothing really wrong with liking a character that isn't real. Some people do it to help them get over things and some people use it for stories. I did both. Even if I say that I just asked for advice on dealing with this.
I started liking Cloud after he and I broke up because He was hurt from me and I think it was because I was upset alot too,or even when I hurt myself. I don't know.

Thank you Deeman for the good advice you gave me. Also Thanks Mushu,for the Advice you gave me.

04/27/07, 04:06 AM	#1
Ayumi w00t! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I live in Livejournal <3 Posts: 1,377 Rep Power: 4	Worried I feel bad because Jerome says he still loves me andwould want me back but I do like Cloud and I don't wanna hurt him anymore. I wanna be his friend. I'm sure he could find so many other girls out there but I think I've killed him v.v; I think he should be able to move on. I know lots of girls perfect for him. I just wish to be a friend that loves him. I'm sure I've cause'd him to wanna kill him self. What should I do? I just want him too think about it. I know he'll find someone better. I can't 'be' with him pyshically. I'm just a dumb girl. I'm sorry but this is one thing I can do for some advice v_v. Thanks;

04/27/07, 04:10 AM	#2
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried What you just said is the perfect thing to say to Jerome. Pour out your feelings to him, and then, if he's a real man, he'll understand. Telling someone that you just want to be friends is hard, but it's the only way that causes the least amount pain. Go with what your heart tells you ;) I hope that everything turns out right.

04/27/07, 04:16 AM	#4
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried Do you have a way of contacting him over the phone? You may need to do that, if necessary. To go to him in person, however, would be the best way to act. It shows that you care enough to tell him face-to-face how you feel.

04/27/07, 04:19 AM	#5
Ayumi w00t! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I live in Livejournal <3 Posts: 1,377 Rep Power: 4	Re: Worried I'd love to do that but no. I can't by phone nor face-to-face v.v we're too far away from eachother. We live in two different states. I've done all I could. I don't want him to hurt himself which..i bet he already has v.v; He's not on MSN or anything so I've killed him.. I can pray for him to be alright but..I doubt he will v.v.

04/27/07, 04:22 AM	#6
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried ^Go ahead and pray. It won't hurt ;) How about an deep, honest, and sincere letter written in your best writing? It's always nice to get a letter. You may need to find his address, though.

04/27/07, 04:27 AM	#7
Ayumi w00t! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: I live in Livejournal <3 Posts: 1,377 Rep Power: 4	Re: Worried He's back,and alright(as far as I know) I'm happy he didn't do the worst but I do want him to see this, i care for him as a friend,like a sister now since well he hurt me and I don't wanna lose his friendship if we break up again. Maybe more than a friend but I don't wanna ruin things anymore. He may be mad about this but I want him to see I do care for him. but yes I like a CGI character..but Jerome'll always have a very important place in my heart. I'll always be his girlfriend in my eyes.

04/27/07, 04:31 AM	#8
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried You mean... the person you like is Cloud Strife? Then... why did you break up with Jerome in the first place?

04/27/07, 04:56 AM	#10
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried Do you think that since he broke up with you, you might need to stay away? If trying to talk to him will only make things worse, maybe you shouldn't say anything at all. Are you upset because he hurt your feelings and now he wants to come back to you, but you're afraid of him hurting your feelings again?

04/27/07, 05:12 AM	#11
Thelonepickle I don't like bugs! Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 3,762 Rep Power: 7	Re: Worried Honestly, say I was this Jerome character, if I found out that you were supposedly "in love" with a fictional videogame star, I'd know that you don't understand love at all, and I'd dump you, too. I don't really understand the situation here. You got dumped, probably because you are "in love" with Cloud, and now you're worried that the guy's not over YOU? If he takes you back, he's doing you a favour. Please wake up and realize that Cloud isn't alive, and he can't love you back, and what you have for him is NOT love.

04/27/07, 05:14 AM	#12
Deeman out of order Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Pierrefonds Age: 16 Posts: 3,810 Rep Power: 8	Re: Worried ^Well stated. I felt it might be too harsh to say that, but it's the truth. Cloud is fictional, Jerome is real. The relationship with Cloud can't happen, but the relationship with Jerome can.

04/27/07, 06:30 AM	#14
Reno-chan Time For Me To F l y Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Gone to Year 3000 with the Jonas Brothers :D xD Age: 18 Posts: 4,490 Rep Power: 7	Re: Worried ...^That was nice of you Sir Ass >__>; ....-sigh- Yo Yumer`s =) im gunna say like i did in the PM ...i think you should just be friends with him and not stress on how hes 'acting' >.> sounds to me like hes trying to make some kinda evil guilt trip or something? o.O;; ....he needs to stop acting like a emo-ass and be able to be a 'friend' =/ ...im terrible with advice but theres my 2 cents xD; ~na no da

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