Worried

[Dawning Twilight]

Originally Posted by Reno-chan

...^That was nice of you Sir Ass >__>

lolz sometimes i believe that the comment a person makes describes the person perfectly. Stupid people say stupid things in other words to put it bluntly. ^^

Originally Posted by Aegis

...LMFAO

XD OMG. First of all, I saved that on my hard drive for when I need another really good laugh. Second of all, saying you're in love with a fictional character is kinda retarded. Cloud doesn't exist. Get over it and go make a real friend.

HE DUMPED YOU!

Just get over it, and talk to someone about your weird feeling of "love" for Cloud... On second thought, they'll probably think you're stupid. Seriously, go outside and make like an actual friend...

stupidity is not an excuse for being rude or arrogant. first off, fan boys and girls do exist out there they may love or like certain characters it's not like they're Santa Claus or anything. So if i spoiled that for you i apologize. You sound like a reasonable human being in other threads so let me make a suggestion to you. when a person is in pain or is suffering you don't kick them to add more suffering to the situation. personally i find it natural if Ayumi does have an attraction to a non-real person/character. it's natural when a person feels alone or left out to seek comfort regardless of how "REAL" a person that they find as comforting is. and honestly to tell you the truth i don't think you're helping by saying "Just get over it, and talk to someone about your weird feeling of "love" for Cloud... On second thought, they'll probably think you're stupid. Seriously, go outside and make like an actual friend..." strange might be true stupid i think not. Ayumi most likely although i do not really know her has friends which are REAL. assuming stuff like that can real do as the saying says...



Anyways Ayumi please ignore Aegis' comment you shouldn't allow insolent people like that get to you as they never really understand what they're saying they're just attempting to get under your skin regardless of what they say afterwards. as i mentioned to Aegis i will say the same to you. i feel it is perfectly natural that you have an attraction to Cloud. with the position that you're now in it would only be a reasonable reaction. regardless as your friend here at KHI i hope you feel better. and you don't need to apologize for seeking advice from reasonable people it's good that you can do that. ^^

[Libra]

I don't mean to sound rude, but being in love with a fictional character is a little unhealthy. I feel you made the right decision seeking out help from real people with your problem, but obsessing over a fictional character isn't going to ease any pain. It's only going to mask it. I know break ups can be hard, but you're going to have to just get the feelings out. It will only help you to mature and eventually find the right person.

[Ayumi]

Originally Posted by Libra

I don't mean to sound rude, but being in love with a fictional character is a little unhealthy. I feel you made the right decision seeking out help from real people with your problem, but obsessing over a fictional character isn't going to ease any pain. It's only going to mask it. I know break ups can be hard, but you're going to have to just get the feelings out. It will only help you to mature and eventually find the right person.

I'm not obsessed =] I guess it's just a small little crush really.
Nothing serious O.o;

[Aegis]

The fact that you're hurt doesn't meant that you should want to give a character from Final Fantasy a jump. I've been depressed quite a bit, but I've never seeked the comfort of something that doesn't exist, I talk to my friends or I deal with it myself.

How is she suffering? All she has to do to get her jollies is to go play FFVII or watch Advent Children.

This whole problem is retarded.

She's depressed, or afraid, or whatever because he dumped her and she thinks that because of that he was going to go hurt himself. She needs to get over herself and find somebody in real life.

She posted her problem, I posted my advice. She needs to go out and make more actual friends. I couldn't care less about getting under her skin, I'm just telling her the truth. Liking Cloud that way is pretty damn stupid.

Also, being a fan boy or fan girl who is in love with whatever character you choose to become obsessed over isn't something to be proud of. Yes, I'm aware there are many who proudly call themselves that, dress up like anime characters, go to the conventions and basically embarass themselves and others, but really, that's nothing to be proud of.

You can feel free to continue this and call me immature, but by jumping on that you'll just be making yourself look like a hypocrite. I don't really care if you wanna think that about me, she posted her problem, asked for advice, and I told her honestly what I think she needs to do. Get over it people.

[Aly-chan]

uh a videogame character?

Um Ayu. Jerome is real/ Cloud fake.

Go for the real. D:

If he wants you back, give him another chance. ;) If you want to be friends then be friends! Do what your heart and your mind agree with.

[Axel Owns]

just dont go back out with him, i mean, if you do, youll just end up breaking up again, and then hell be hurt more

[Guardian Soul]

Originally Posted by Aly-chan

uh a videogame character?

Um Ayu. Jerome is real/ Cloud fake.

Go for the real. D:

If he wants you back, give him another chance. ;) If you want to be friends then be friends! Do what your heart and your mind agree with.

See, this is the thing, I talked to Jerome on msn today.

And from what he told me, he doesn't want her back. He doesn't even like her anymore.

He just laughed.

I doubt he's going to go out with someone who's in love with a fictional character drawn on a piece of paper...

Technically, you're not in love with Cloud, you're in love with a bunch of forty year old japanese guys who created him.

[Deeman]

Alright, you guys can stop rubbing it in now. I think she gets the idea >.<

[Dawning Twilight]

Is any of this really at all neccesary most of the people here aren't helping regardless of whether they're trying to be or not. plz perhaps we should try to be more reasonable in giving suggestions. double negatives don't always react in a positive. as for this is it not true that perhaps everyone who enjoys an anime or game or anything really that they've liked a character from it. i'm sure this has happened to people especially the cosplay people...

[Fuse]

Originally Posted by Ayumi

Thanks Mushu and I'm just gonna ignore the comments about that because I do have friends. There's nothing really wrong with liking a character that isn't real. Some people do it to help them get over things and some people use it for stories. I did both. Even if I say that I just asked for advice on dealing with this.
I started liking Cloud after he and I broke up because He was hurt from me and I think it was because I was upset alot too,or even when I hurt myself. I don't know.

Thank you Deeman for the good advice you gave me. Also Thanks Mushu,for the Advice you gave me.

You hurt yourself?
Yeah, thats over the top =o. But I guess I understand what your feeling right now.

The best thing for you right now I think, is to do anything you can to use up your time.
And maybe you will stop thinking about him as much.
It would probably be for the best.

But, if you still like him, I say try talking to him about it and see if you can work things out.

[Guardian Soul]

Originally Posted by Dawning Twilight

Is any of this really at all neccesary most of the people here aren't helping regardless of whether they're trying to be or not. plz perhaps we should try to be more reasonable in giving suggestions. double negatives don't always react in a positive. as for this is it not true that perhaps everyone who enjoys an anime or game or anything really that they've liked a character from it. i'm sure this has happened to people especially the cosplay people...

All I'm doing is telling the truth. Do you want me to lie to her?

Lie and say that Jerome does want her back and that Cloud is real?

That isn't the right thing to do, and there is no better way to put it.

[Deeman]

^It is okay to say that Cloud isn't real, but what is not okay is rubbing it in her face. Once is enough. Move on.

[Fuse]

Originally Posted by Guardian Soul

Lie and say that Jerome does want her back

Do you know for sure?
Have you thought that maybe he still likes her?

[Aly-chan]

Originally Posted by Deeman

^It is okay to say that Cloud isn't real, but what is not okay is rubbing it in her face. Once is enough. Move on.

He wasn't rubbing it in her face. It was me. :\ I started it and just continued from what I did. No reason to throw it at his face like that without talking about it to me.

And Ari knows that Cloud is a fictional character.

Ari is one of my best friends. And she knows I would NEVER rub something in her face with the force of amusement. No. Never. Just not my style. It was a joke of what the simple age was of some guys who made a game.

So what.

And if I did offend Ari in ANY way. I am sorry.

~Aly
EDIT/

I think I should repost this quote for someone. :\

See, this is the thing, I talked to Jerome on msn today.

And from what he told me, he doesn't want her back. He doesn't even like her anymore.

He just laughed.

[Guardian Soul]

Originally Posted by FuS3

Do you know for sure?
Have you thought that maybe he still likes her?

Um, yes I know for sure because he just told me eight hours ago.

Originally Posted by Deeman

Guardian Soul, you still wouldn't drop the topic of her liking Cloud. There's a point where you should stop. You, as well as some others, continued.

Just drop it now and talk about something different >.<

You're also continuing in the thread.

I'm on topic. Why would I talk about something else?