Help! I have a guy problem and I so need advice from any of you!

[Jub Jub376]

Dangit, I can't post anything cos everyone else got to what I was thinking before them...

Well tips:

Smile, but not all the time-might scare him

Don't look at thy shoes-shows you're just as shy

Become more open you must-only then will this problem be no longer an obstacle in your path

Allow him to make this first move, 'tis customary-if not, make thy move first

And if he does anything to hurt you..let's just say I'm a guy, and against that kind of stuff-get ALL your friends to destroy him!!

Go on a double date before you're alone-if you're still not sure about him get a spy network to go on with some of your friends-this way if he trys anything, he gets taken out.

If he's one of the "in" crowd, well, those guys are usually easy to, well, for me, to mess with mentally lol.

If he trys to do anything to you, and I can ship myself to your location, I'll challenge him in a one-on-one duel swords only. The price is FREE!

PM me if you have any questions, and hope you use this thread to thy advantage; you can always talk to other girls on the site that are your friends; they might know more of this than you do.

If that guy is easily swayed to do anything, like drugs, etc.; I wouldn't go out with him;

One Last Thing:

You can't lose anything by just talking to him, neither can he. Talk to him if he talks to you, instead of like freakin' stalking you; Be more open socially, like don't get scared of a guy just because he looks strong.

Even the strongest are weak-look at the characters in KH; Lexaeus, Riku, Sora-they are all weak in one way or another.

Bear in mind to keep your eyes open for any signs of him doing something focused towards you; he might want to get your attention by talking about that other girl-"She's so hot"-can be used to get your attention; he's most likely trying to see how you would react to him if he cheated on you while ya'll were in a relationship.

I'm a guy-although I am weak in physical strength, like I have skinny arms, etc- I can still tire out even the most physically fit individual- by using my mind, my skill, and my very soul.

Guys and Girls have the same problems in dating most of the time; they aren't different in their choosing, unless theyre smart and ask someone out who is smart like them, not a stupid boy/girlfriend who will do practically anything;

Ask someone out who knows when to say no-like if some girl I was going out with wanted..to go smoke- I'd tell her no, and if she tried to, I'd just tell her parents. Not to seem mean, but that's how its got to be done. I'm no nerdy guy either-I'm EMO! (Emotional)

PM me if you need a guy's perspective on this.

Thanks, and I'll be checking on your progress in this thread; This can help other people too, ya know.

"Nothing is impossible, merely improbable."

Jub Jub376

[Snow Candy]

UPDATE:
So yeah...........I got over him. Shocker eh?
But hey, why not keep this thread open because you know somebody's going to need some help and I want to be

Why is it over:

1. He seems not interested in me (I did smile at him and I don't think he smiled back)
2. He walks in the halls, ignoring me now....unless I'm NOT looking
3. He, I don't know suspects that I like him
4. I'm a hopeless failure at this kind of stuff and I decided if I can't make the first move and slash I'm NOT ready....and I've realized that, give up on him.

But for anybody who's willing to get advice and stuff....don't be me and DON'T give up...

I realized on my own....that he's NOT the one for me.......


Otherwise, if any of you still wants to help or yadayadayadayada......then do so!


NOTE: I did make my first move if you didn't notice. I smiled.........Wait, so did I have to talk to him? O_O

Okay, fine!!!!!!!

JUST ANSWER TO THIS PLEASE!

[CAB_IV]

all because you were to afraid to say something?

you people are nuts.

talking is the normal way people initiate any kind of relations/friendships on any level, unless you are mute or deaf.

you need to grow some balls, so to speak (yes i know you are a girl, but you should grasp the idea).

waiting will get you nowhere, as no one does anything for you. NOTHING happens if you don't push for it.

[Snow Candy]

UPDATE:
So yeah...........I got over him. Shocker eh?
But hey, why not keep this thread open because you know somebody's going to need some help and I want to be
Why is it over:
1. He seems not interested in me (I did smile at him and I don't think he smiled back)
2. He walks in the halls, ignoring me now....unless I'm NOT looking
3. He, I don't know suspects that I like him
4. I'm a hopeless failure at this kind of stuff and I decided if I can't make the first move and slash I'm NOT ready....and I've realized that, give up on him.
But for anybody who's willing to get advice and stuff....don't be me and DON'T give up...
I realized on my own....that he's NOT the one for me.......

Otherwise, if any of you still wants to help or yadayadayadayada......then do so!

NOTE: I did make my first move if you didn't notice. I smiled.........Wait, so did I have to talk to him? O_O
Okay, fine!!!!!!!
JUST ANSWER TO THIS PLEASE!

[uLtIm4]

i need help with a gurl but the thread title says " Help! I have a guy problem and I so need advice from any of you!" but i'm a guy and not gay

[CAB_IV]

either way, we need specifics.

if you are not a freshmen in highschool, the answer is to scrap the idea all together. any attempt at a relationships with meaning ( despite what others may say) is a complete waste of your time. don't worry yourself, relax, and just be cool, lol. Freshmen year is when you want to start trying this stuff.


If you are a freshmen, specifics needed.

[axemyxas100]

Okay for you, my advice, Ultm4, here's what you should do:

1. Just be nice, make sure you don't get cocky or anything......or show off too much. Most girls don't like that.
2. Smile at the girl and see if she smiles back.

3. Keep being yourself and don't be somebody you aren't.
4. If a girl DOESN'T like you for who you are, then IT'S HER PROBLEM AND NOT YOURS!

Good luck! I hope some tips help.

If you need to talk to her talk about:
First say:
"Hi." or "Hey, what's up?"
*If your NOT the funny type, DON'T crack up a joke, it will just annoy the girls (well some girls)
*School (what do you think of Math class? blah blah)
*Interests (like ask her what does she likes and stuff)


HOPE THIS HELPS!

[uLtIm4]

kinda but were friends, soooooo the only thing that helped wuz...

1. Just be nice, make sure you don't get cocky or anything......or show off too much. Most girls don't like that.

3. Keep being yourself and don't be somebody you aren't.

and im totally the funny type and make her laugh ALOT!!!! and i smile of course and she smiles bak

[Snow Candy]

UPDATE:

Okay, so you all know about the guy I like right?
Well I don't think it's true but if it is, I HOPE SO! But anyway my friend INSISTS that she saw the guy I like first checking me out when we walked by) and I think I did smile at him then quickly turn away when she saw this) and then she INSISTS/SWEARS she saw that he was smiling back and he almost gave me a teeth smile but he's NOT one of those boys who smile with baring his own teeth, I don't know why and she said, MAYBE JUST MAYBE his cheeks were rosier then usual, cuz his cheeks are rosy! OMG!!!!!!!!!!

IF THIS IS TRUE, DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME!?!



Was the fortune cookie right


And okay, I'M NOT OVER HIM YET! XD

[axemyxas100]

Well Sorafan,
I think he likes you, my friend. So what do you say to that?

[Jub Jub376]

Yea, he likes you. No doubt.

[Sir Meta Knight]

How old are you, exactly? Or what grade level are you in?

Under 8th grade, I say screw it. Relationships are fake then. Even in highschool, many are still fake...drama queens who are bored stir that stuff up. And is this 'friend' of your trusting? Can you trust her, or is she someone who would stir stuff up like this? Contemplation of all these facts will help you decide.

[Jub Jub376]

No offense, but it's better for anyone reading to not get mixed up with Sorafan1203's problem and uLtIm4's predicament.

And Meta, if people want to get in relationship, then it's good for them. It shows them what characteristics they would want their future spouse to have, and helps boost their confidence and social life.

And uLtIm4, she likes you. I suggest you ask her out when you feel the time is right. Don't rush it.

Sorafan, that guy, most likely from what I've seen, either has a deep crush on you, or is really creepy. He's got a crush on you, no doubt of that.

*awaits for more updates*

I've got a friend who lives in Illinois. *random*

[axemyxas100]

Ditto. Jub Jub. Ditto. ^_^

[Snow Candy]

Thanks guys. Since the problem is solved and going nowhere. I'm closing it. XD