why does it bug me?

[bond of flames]

ok, i've been sitting here over-thinking stuff and it really bugs me.it wont go away

its about my gf.i know that she loves me and would never want to hurt me and that she is friends with these kids we hang out with alot.
but i've seen sum myspace comments on one kids and parts of it were "babe" and "cutiepututey" and stuff.

now i know she doesnt like them like that.cuz i've told her about this before.
but then, why does it bother me?

can some one help me figure this out?

[Crimson Soul]

Becuse it is your gf and it is weird for you to see someone else say that, I know that would bug me!

[bond of flames]

i meant that she leaves those on their myspaces

[violent_anger]

it's because you're a control freak

[Crimson Soul]

Originally Posted by bond of flames

i meant that she leaves those on their myspaces

Sorry for the mix up, but I going to say the same thing exept you can't stand her saying those thing to other people,and yes that would bug me too.

[bond of flames]

im not a control freak VA.it just bothers me

why did you come here to just say that.its not helping

even though i can understand that you said it cuz that may be what it seems like.
but it isnt

[Crimson Soul]

Does she say those things to you?If she does not maybe it bothers you becuse you want her to say those things to you?

[violent_anger]

im not a control freak VA.it just bothers me

why did you come here to just say that.its not helping

even though i can understand that you said it cuz that may be what it seems like.
but it isnt

sure it is, you want those comments removed, she wont, so you're mad that you dont have control.

now ask yourself "How can I be less of a control freak?"

[bond of flames]

what?i never asked her to get rid of the comments


and she does say those things to me.i dont know why it bothers me still

[Crimson Soul]

Maybe you don't like the kids she is saying these things to?


Yes 100th post!!!!

[I]

Well, I think there's a possibility that you might be overreacting, because there's some girls who refer to their friends in that matter and it has limited meaning. I would suggest just watching and seeing if the conversations turn to a more *personal* topic, if you catch my drift <3

[bond of flames]

of course i like the kids.we hang out alot

and i think AOHC(axelownshardcore.lol) got it.and it never gets personal.

[Crimson Soul]

Originally Posted by bond of flames

of course i like the kids.we hang out alot

and i think AOHC(axelownshardcore.lol) got it.and it never gets personal.

Sorry I did not help.

I agree with axel, but only if it is a girl saying this stuff.

But I get what you are saying and here is the real true honest to god answer-

Because to the male mind, you OWN her. This mentality is bad, but it is true of all males. We are told to protect our property, and our 'woman' is our property.

Aside from that, you may truly not like the people saying this. This is even worse- why would she be tlaking to your rivals? Maybe she will run away from you for one of them?



YOU ARE WRONG!

Unless there is hard vidence, you won't lose 'your' woman. She isn't yours to lose. You need to tell THESE PEOPLE to knock the shit, or you will knock them out. Typically male, but at least you aren't unjustly taking this out on your girlfriend.

BTW- I'm a guy, so this isn't some girl guessing about the male psyche.

[bond of flames]

qwe, u did help.in ur own way.lol

and thx DK, i get what u mean

i do like those people,they arent my rivals. maybe it bugs me cuz i heard that sum of them like her.i've told most of them to back off and it looks like they have.



either way, thx guys