Court Battle with My Mother.

[Keitaro Urashima]

well i came back and thought of something

basically, your in court with your mother and you can express how you fell because you feel pressured that evryone is watching you.

correct?

I swear that is utter bull.

i mean srsly, how are you supposed to be able to say what you need to say with all the pressure on you? Have they not the ability to understand that there are so many damn things going on in a teens life that pressure is the last thing we need? srsly, if i could.....

but then again...maybe its for your own good.

think of it this way, if your unable to handle the pressure, and be able to tell what you feel in the inside, with all the fear, when will you ever be able to handle it later in your life? I mean, like, if you cant just say the problems going on in your life to them with all those eyes on you when will you ever be able to ever just ignore the pressure and say what you feel?

as for your mom, i know you love her, and you dont want trash her, you love her yes, but no one ever said life was easy. I mean srsly, the only way to get by this is to m,ake some sacrifices, life is full of it, you cant get past them

tell me, who was the one who wanted to get divorced in the first place? if it was your mother, i say just say what you feel damnit. If it was her then she was the one who made life so damn terriblt for you. Make her feel guilt.

i dont know if that helped, if it didnt just ignore this......

and if for any reason what i say pisses you off or anything....sry....

[Massive Attack]

That's tough.

I haven't been through half as much of the type of things that are happening to you.

[Sky Bolt]

Like most other people here, I can't say I know what you're going through. I have a friend who would, but I don't talk with her about it very much because I think it's probably too personal. I have a limited knowledge of law and legal processes and most of that is Australian, so it's not of much use in the American legal system. My advice, though limited and not necessarily correct, is that you talk with a lawyer, your own if you have one, and ask them what will be expected of you, what will happen while you're in court and so on. Once you know what will happen, it won't seem as tough. Try to think about what you'll say so that it'll come easier when you're asked to talk. Remember to stay calm, and if you're not sure about what to do or how to answer a question when you're in court, just ask the judge. Because you're a child, they won't expect you to know exactly what to do or say so they should help you when they can. I guess that's all I can think of, and I'm not sure if all of it is relevant or correct. As I said, my knowledge of the situation is limited, but I hope I've helped. Stay strong and you'll get through this. We're all here for you.

[Inner-Demon]

You can't hold your parents in high regards just because they gave birth to you. Back-stab them, do what you have to. It's your own life, so take advantage of what you can. Listen, if you're going to see a shrink you're going to have to act calm and natural, you have to seem level headed so that it appears that you can make vital choices, such as who you want to live with. Even if you are angry, it's called lying.

Do alot of lying if you have to. Be honest about how you feel toward your mother, but be careful with the emotion you show, it can be used against you. If you seem unstable, that won't look right. If you go in there screaming and shouting, it's going to seriously screw with how capable you are.

Plus it could screw things up in the long run and you be forced to see a shrink on some sort of weekly, bi-weekly basis. Don't want that now do you? You're what, 14? You should know some about being manipulative, it's all about playing games with people, just take control of the game.

[Athletics Legend]

Man, im sorry, i have no experience..

Listen, stay clam and say everything truthfully..
'
If they find out that you lie then your in trouble badly, dont feel so uncomfortable okay..you have every right to be angry..

Good luck

[Electropop]

Well im going to update! Next Saturday im going to go to this Doc. I have my papers ready and all. Im not really nervouse..(maybe its becouse i have a week still) but im ready. I will tell yahs what happend when its all over.

LETS GO COURT LETS GO

[the loose moose]

wow
this actually got me
im normaly a smartass but this really got me

punch your mom in the face
im serious
punch her hard

[Keitaro Urashima]

Originally Posted by sorasheart281

Well im going to update! Next Saturday im going to go to this Doc. I have my papers ready and all. Im not really nervouse..(maybe its becouse i have a week still) but im ready. I will tell yahs what happend when its all over.

LETS GO COURT LETS GO

i hope it goes well for you

if it doesnt, hell, just three years to go eh?

[Electropop]

All right. Update.

Friday..was long. I mean you would think it would end fast, it didnt. Well im going to give you the good stuff. I went to this shrink, Her name Mrs. Partrige. She was a nice lady not stuck up like i know. She was nice and we started to talk. She asked me how my life is blah blah blah. She asked all types of questions. Like what Soical group im in. (i didnt think it matterd)

Anyways.

She said i had one hell of a life and said in very mature for my younge age. (was she pulling my leg?) Some questions where very very hard to anwser. Since that one question my mind was fine..that seemed to shock it badly. Since Friday i have been kinda jumpy.. Saturday i went to a GYM and swam for about 2 hours then jogged for about a mile. I had to shake my mind off.

It seems im fine but im still shocked from the stuiped Question.

Tis my life.

Thank you all for helping me. I hope to end this battled soon and look forward to my next years in high school and then the rest of it all. <3

Love you,

Rachelle

AKA Sorasheart281.

[Shadukai X]

I'm guessing the ones that were hard to answer were the really deep ones, correct? I've gotten them before.

I am glad that things are mostly working out Sh, I think this is the point where things cool down, then slowly die away. I'm so glad for you Rachelle. I hope your life works out for the better.

Love your good friend,
Andrew