Dating problems

[Stavvy]

Originally Posted by CAB_IV

I think you should embark to create an intricate web of lies that leads to his untimely death, freeing the girl for you.

I guess that would work. . .one problem, how are you going to get enough liquid amber to fossilize him? That shit ain't cheap. . .

[ace12993]

lmao^^ but ye i kno my friend is wayy more important 2 me but it feels as if i have wasted my whole year for nothing

[Stavvy]

I wouldn't say you wasted it, I mean, you're still alive aren't you? Finding a girl isn't everything, it's just one of many things. Besides, you're 14, you still have four more years of HIGH school, and then a whole HELLOVA lot longer to find someone. Don't rush life, it'll be over before you know it.


Meh, I'm going to bed. . .

[ace12993]

lol same here thnx for the advice [=

[CAB_IV]

Originally Posted by Stavros

I guess that would work. . .one problem, how are you going to get enough liquid amber to fossilize him? That shit ain't cheap. . .

Dude, i hope you know that amber is tree sap... thats already fossilized.

You new that right? i don't want to loose faith in humanity again.

we can however shoot him out the Grif cannon into a vat of maple syrup, then burry it.

[Stavvy]

Originally Posted by CAB_IV

Dude, i hope you know that amber is tree sap... thats already fossilized.

You new that right? i don't want to loose faith in humanity again.

we can however shoot him out the Grif cannon into a vat of maple syrup, then burry it.

You know that's what I meant, cut me some slack, I was half asleep, and hadn't slept in a while. . .

[CAB_IV]

Originally Posted by Stavros

You know that's what I meant, cut me some slack, I was half asleep, and hadn't slept in a while. . .

Yeah, you know i'm just joking!
























... Or am I? *considers the Nuclear Option*

[ace12993]

wow u ppl got some crazy ideas lmao

[CAB_IV]

Well, when i do come up with a legitimate answer, its garunteed that it will be a new solution then the stock stuff you get. I would try to come up with a real answer, but for some reason my brain has not been able to wrap around your post. my ADD prevents me from being interested. I'll try again later.


*** EDIT*****

I concur with stavros. You're just 14, you will meet more girls. don't worry. the more you fixate, the more lost you will be, which is not good.

[Thrax]

So I have also a very big problem.
Since last month, a girl from the 8th graduate and me were very good friends. And we kept it though. I think we are more than good friends, and obviously everybody expect that I ask her to be my girlfriend. I had once a little relation with a girl, she was my girlfriend, but I did not ask her to be my girlfriend, and yeah, it happened like, .. I love you and kiss. And it wasnt me, it was her.
I did not learn to ask a girl to be my girlfriend, and, do I need to learn it lol?
To come straight to the point. Guys, I have no idea how to ask her, I need help. Please. I dont want to waste the time.

[CAB_IV]

First of all, don't even think of asking her until you are reasonably sure you have a shot. You two should be gettng together more often, and she will probably want to spend more time with you ( as in, without you asking, she shows up more). those are good indicators that she is close.

If you do ask her, be sure to not make a big deal. the best way to go is slow. Don't jump in with girlfriend stuff instantly because it will scare girls.

I would say "put your foot in the door". If you get her to agree to do something small you want her to do, psychologically, (and this goes for everyone, not just girls) you can actually convince them to go farther then they might have gone. So just ask her to do things that are progressively closer to going out, but are not actually. If you do well and she has a good time, you can ask her, and unless she has her sights elsewhere, you have a reasonable chance.

Never expect win. that will crush your soul. the best thing you can do is hope for the best but be prepared for rejection. Being rejected gracefully is how you want to go, since it won't hurt your chances later. If she rejects you and you get emo/depressed/obnoxious about it, you are permanently fail. just shrug it off and say better luck next time.

[Thrax]

We met us every day, privacy, and in the school. She writes with me every day and ask me if I come out to hanging. Im pretty sure that the time has come.
I dont know what to say guys. Tell me some stuff to tell/ask her. I wont be rejected, please share your experiance.

[Ningacom]

If you're positive that she won't reject you, then just say

"Do you want to go out with me?"

Personally, I find asking "Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend" immature.

Just be cool with it. If it's meant to happen, it'll happen.

If not, the oh well. Can't say you didn't give it a shot ja?

[Sora_Rox_My_Sox]

this sounds retarded, but maybe practice what you're gonna say.
practice makes perfect XD
but it shouldnt be too rehearsed
keep it simple, dont get complex, like Ning said
wow, i should have used this thread a long time ago >_<

[Zero]

Hey if there is someone that can help me then can you cause theres a girl I think is cute at my school but I dont know her so my friend talked to her, since he knew her, and my friend told me that she thinks im "ok" and I tried to talk to her on the computer and she responded one time but after I said something she didnt reply and today I sent her something else but she didnt reply to that so am I being annoying to her, she probably didnt like me that way or what?