Dating problems

[Stavvy]

I like to write as well, I just normally don't do poetry, maybe because it was just a new outlet to get everything out. . .

Whatever works for you.

[CAB_IV]

lol, looks like all the usual people are still around. I was off this site for like, 4 months. to much crap i had to worry about.

as far as dating goes, i only get worse, but i'm so far down the hole where there is no one problem i can fix.

[Stavvy]

Cab (good to see you back), that's why you come here. If you can't fix a problem, why not let us?

[CAB_IV]

Its good to see people remember me! i don't think i was even on this site that long before i pretty much had to abandon it to get some important work done.

as for helping me, once again i must thankfully decline. It appears i have no dating to have problems with, lol.

check it! over 16 days worth of man hours, and my eagle project was finished early november. don't worry, its just primer! I totally rebuilt the sides.




Happy new year.

[Stavvy]

I think I remember you mentioning that in an earlier thread. . .

Well, if you have any problems, just talk with me, I'm sure I can help in some way. . .

[CAB_IV]

go for it. There is already a thread about it. Welcome to the looney bin, lol.

also, nice Red Vs Blue Quote.

[Zook]

Originally Posted by Microsoft994

Ok new situation. This girl and I really like each other but her parents won't let her go out with anyone until shes 18! She can't even go to any dance like we just had our junior ring dance and her parents wouldn't let her go even though they have known me since I was in elementary school! We feel like we're in a rut, can't get any closer than holding hands. Any suggestions?

revival, please help.

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[CAB_IV]

there isn't anything you can do. her parents own her until she is 18.

You can't convince them the world is safe, so she will be just like the boy in the bubble. yay explosions!

[dejah]

well aaaactually,
have your parents talk to her parents.
it might help de-anal-ise them.
it's obvious her parentals have trust issues.

[Pelafina]

Originally Posted by dejah

well aaaactually,
have your parents talk to her parents.
it might help de-anal-ise them.
it's obvious her parentals have trust issues.

They're still doing what they think is best for her, it just isn't helping.

But another adult/ adults will probably be the only people able to change their minds.

[ace12993]

Ok my situationn is a long one so get ready lol. Alright so theres this girl in my school and shes one of my closest friends and my best friends EX. My best friend went out with this girl twice and after the first time me and the girl grew to a point of more than friends, but my best friend did not know this. Ye i know really low of me to do but i couldn't help it cuz i can't control my emotions. So for about a month we would do alot of things that a normal couple would do and stuff like that and i thought that it wouldn't end but i was wrong. Btw we weren't an official couple, more like friends with benefits. So she told me one day that we should stop everything and not go any further because if we would go out and if we woul break up nothing would be the same between me and her. So aright we stopped doing what we did and things got reallly different between us than before. So guess what she decides to get back together with my best friend and w.e. and they break up two weeks later. He find out about w.e. happened between me and her and that really pissed him off and he didn't know who to trust and shit. So now were cool and everything but it isn't the same between him and the girl. Added to this i still like the girl alot and care for her alot and she still likes me. So what should i do? Should i ask her about me and her or not because ive been through alota shit this year and alota drama because of everything. Everyone sais that im wasting my time on her and i should move on, but i simply can't. Shes always on my mind but idk what to do i need help and advice fast!!!

[Stavvy]

Well, the way I see it, your friend really has no weight in this argument. I mean, if he feels NOTHING for her anymore, then why would he even really care if you two were going out.

I say, just ask her out. If all goes well, grand, if not, move on.

And take this from someone who has, and still does to some degree, stop caring about what other people think of you, it's not worth it.

[ace12993]

ye but the problem is is that he does still like her and he likes her ALOT so idk what to do

[Stavvy]

Well, now you have a choice to make, the girl or the friend. The friend is, more than likely, going to last you longer than the girl, but the girl. . .she's a girl, lol. . .

You have to figure out who you care more for.

[CAB_IV]

I think you should embark to create an intricate web of lies that leads to his untimely death, freeing the girl for you.