Dating problems

[Spaceman Spiff]

Just calm down Frozen....Itll work out! Worst case scenario: Your Rejected

See the bright side?

[TheLastKnight]

heh, 2 chances to get it right, I think of it that way

[violent_anger]

I was going to tell her yesterday at the pool, but she was leaving as I was getting there.

If I've ever seen a sign of you two not being meant to be, that's it.

[TheLastKnight]

That pickup line will get ya outta alot of shit, too. like:

"Why don't I skip the cheesy break up line...and maybe start seeing other people

just a hint, incase you'd ever need it

Those lines are like "The best!"

[kago]

so here i go. there's this girl i met through one of my really close cousin and she's really pretty, her name is miranda. she thinks that i'm hot, cute, etc. how i know this, is cause my cousin ratted her out, what a friend. well, out of all the mexican girls i've seen in my life, she listens to rock and techno and wears hollister and all that expensive crap. which is like me, so now i don't feel like a left out mexican in the world cause she likes the same stuff as me. the thing is, she could also be really confusing, she says that she likes movies but she doesn't really watch them. and i didn't get a straight response from her about drawing and along those lines, but from what i got, she's not a big fan. which is a huge part of me. she doesn't have to like drawing just you know incourage me, give me confidence. the funny thing is her dream man is justin timberlake and my dream girl is christian aguilera. so yeah, we have a lot of things in common that i know of at the moment.

now for the other, this girl goes to my school, she's in my class. i don't know what race she is exactlly but she is hispanic and she's really pretty, name is jazmine. by the looks of her she looks like she likes rock, and she doesn't wear clothes like the stereotypical mexican girl would wear. i seem to be attracted the pretty model prep girl look, the short skirts and stuff. they dress really nice. well, anyways i really don't know anything about jazmine, no one reallt talks to each other in this class. i don't know if she likes me but i've seen her take a couple of glimps at me in class and in the hall way but then she looks all around her enviorement. some girl did this with my friend , looking around and at him and it turned out she didn't like him. i'm all about taking chances, if you don't do it, you wont know what happens.

so the problem is i don't know who i should ask out. i'm stuck in the middle! also i never thought i would ever date a mexican or hispanic girl even though i'm mexican. lol!

[Thelonepickle]

First of all, why does race even matter? -.- You sure did mention it a lot. And the way they dress..? How expensive the things they like are..?

Anyway, the one trait you look for in a girl that seems to be important is that you want support in what you do.

Other than that, you don't even sound mature enough to be in a relationship.

Besides, why can't you ask them both out? Jeez, it couldn't hurt. :/ Play teh field for a bit. Obviously you don't seem to REALLY care about either one of 'em, so it's all casual for now.

[Lycanthrope]

Deeman, in my heart, I know I'm ready. But its just so damn mind boggling.

[kago]

Originally Posted by Thelonepickle

First of all, why does race even matter? -.- You sure did mention it a lot. And the way they dress..? How expensive the things they like are..?

Anyway, the one trait you look for in a girl that seems to be important is that you want support in what you do.

Other than that, you don't even sound mature enough to be in a relationship.

Besides, why can't you ask them both out? Jeez, it couldn't hurt. :/ Play teh field for a bit. Obviously you don't seem to REALLY care about either one of 'em, so it's all casual for now.

race doesn't matter, it's just the neighbor hood i grew up in when i was little was full with mexicans and they were all hoochie mamas, so that's what pops into my head. i bet i'm gonna marry a mexican anyways. as for the mature thing i am a lot of fun to be with, but sometimes people don't want to be around me because i'm too mature, that's only when i become to serious about something. so i am quite mature, get it from my mom. and i don't think that they would like it if i asked both of them out. and plus one of them is my cousins friend so my cousin would think that i would be a big jerk and with her big mouth the whole family would know and all the women would get on my back. and of course i don't care for them, i don't really know them. i don't care for some one that i don't know. i could have sympathy but have true feelings, no i just can't. that's the whole point of going out with soem one and see if you love them.

[Hip-Hop]

Ok, let's get to the point. I have to pick between these four girls, though I'm finding it really hard to do so. So, since I'm usually the one that gives the advice among my friends, I've come here for some.

#1
So I've been going with this girl named Erica for six months and I really truly love her. She's perfect for me in every way, and I don't think there's a greater girl out there. Recently however, she got hit by a car. She suffered a head injury, and for a few days she didn't remember anyone. Now she does however, but she talks like she's 3. Despite this I'd stay with her through it, I just love her that much.


#2
There's this other girl named Amanda. I promise she is my first love above all others. I used to stare at her from across the cafeteria in the fouth grade everyday, and since then have been lucky enough to become one of her closest friends. And, while it is cliche', I've had a crush on her since thhe very first time i've laid eyes on her. She's beautiful in every since of the word, and I would really do anything for her. Thing is, lately she's been showing interest in me as boyfriend material. My only problem is that I'm scared to go out with her because I know that she deserves the best and I'm not sure if I can give it to her(which is a rare thing with me).

#3
Now there's yet anotherr girl named Constance. I've known Constance since 6th grade, and me and her have always been pretty close. At the end of 8th grade she confessed that she has liked me since 6th grade and just never told me. Unfortunately I was already with Erica, so I didn't go with her. Instead, she used my best friend to try and make me jealous, but that didn't work. After all that was over, I ended up liking Constance but right before we were about to start going out her mom said she could talk to me anymore because I "kept her in too much drama"; which btw is BS. Also, she goes to another school.

#4
Finallly, there's this girl named Precious. She's a new girl at my school, and I hear that she really likes me. She seems cool, like someone I'd date. I'd like to go with her too just have someone new and see if it works.

[darkshadow666]

well which one do you like better?
that should be the one you should ask out.
IF youre gonna ask either of them out. maybe you should get to know them better instead of just going by "oh shes pretty i like her" they could be rude or unsociable or high maintenance and thats not good.

[Lycanthrope]

Morally, I'd say go for Erica. I'm sorry to hear she got hit by a car, but even though she is injured, you should go for her.

If not, go for Precious. Trying new things could work out better than trying old.

[Fuse]

I'm not feeling Amanda.
If she has been your best friend for so long.. you don't want to date her and take the risk of losing even her friendship.

Erica.. Damn dude. lol

Not feeling Constance either..
So I say.. stick with Erica for now, see if her condition gets any better or take your chances with the new girl and see how that goes.

Hope this was some help.

[Miss Murder]

All right. Right off the bat, I can narrow it down to two of the four; you would probably best off going with Erica or Amanda, in my opinion. Not Constance, mainly because long-distance relationships rarely ever work out. Even if you just go to different schools. Trust me, you don't want to get into that. Precious seems to me - excuse this term - like a third wheel of sorts.

Since you were originally going out with Erica and all seemed well pre-car accident, you would look like a real bastard to some people if you broke up with her in her time of need. Sorry for the sappy talk, but that's more than likely how it would go down.

But, if you did choose to break up with Erica considering that she now talks like a 3-year old and such, Amanda would definately be the one you should choose in my opinion.

Really, it all comes down to your own choice, but I hope that I helped you slightly.

[kago]

i go for what's in the insider too. i'm going towards miranda (the first one) but i don't want to go out with her if she's just gonna ignore my drawings. i've been trying to get a hold of my cousin to see mirandas exact thoughts on drawing and stuff along those lines. as for the social thing, when i talked with her the one time it seemed that she had no problem opening up. and she does have expensive taste as well as me but it don't think that she expects things that cost so much. no to be rude but her friends don't have a lot of money hence my cousin. i think her dad just spoils her, so she's spoiled but not rotten. i hope i'm right, if i am, thank god!

as for jazmine, i think that she likes my drawings cause i have a drawing in my binder and she looks at it every time class starts. maybe she likes the clothes the girl is wearing. lol! other than that there is nothing else i know about her. we only have the class tuesdays and thursdays and today was our fifth class. and we cant's talk in the class and she rushes out when class is over and i have to wait for my comp to log off cause half the time it doesn't log off when i tell it to.

[.:Game Master:.]

Originally Posted by ShadowKnight47

I lol'd bud.

anyways, hope that never happens to me...I kinda like 2 women...but I can't decide which one...
I'm leaning towards one of them...but just not so sure...I know one of them notice me all the time, I mess around with all the women in my band class

You could always get both. I'm serious. You're single, and you don't want to jump into a relationship, trust me. Get options open, and work your magic on EVERY girl (even the less prettier ones) and soon, you'll get to get any chick. Also girls like to flirt, so you could have on chick in one arm, and the other in the other arm.

Also, must I point out that when girls see other girls hitting on a guy, they tend to join, thus making you a mack. There are ways to set up a situation where you're the target. First walk up to a set (group of girls) [2 Girls Works Best] near a wall or table (bar-like area) and begin talking. Now take one girls hand and twirl her around (most girls will do this), only you situate her, so that you stand where she was, and lean on something. Now the two girls are facing you, who seems to be getting hit on. Then all the hard work is done, now all you have to do is post up and respond to those two girls. Suddenly, girls will flock to that position and hit on you (Or you'll attract the two girls you already have)... remember keep them interested.

Tell funny stories and don't make it long and drawn out. You can even make up outrageous stories. Also ask questions about female opinion. Remember, you don't want to be nice... those are friends. The boys that tease are the flirts, thus the guy the chick likes. Its the attraction laws. Girls look at your personality, as boys look at the girls looks first. Aw, and rule number 1, NEVER BUY A GIRL ANYTHING... atleast not while you're trying to attract her. I've done this before and it only puts you in the friends zone. Instead of asking her if she wants a drink, wait till she asks you something and respond with a "I'll answer that, after you buy me a drink first." This shows her you're not weak. Guys that buy things for girls are considered nice, which is seen as weakness. Yes, you basically have to be a jerk (playfully, funnily and interestingly). That technique is powerful young grasshopper... use it wisely.