Dating problems

[Cindri]

Heh, you're being silly. Just be nice, and courteous, and act confident. And make sure you're clean and you smell nice. But don't wear cologne or anything. Just a nice shampoo smell.

If you want to find out if she likes you, just talk to her first. Get to be her firend, or at least strike up a conversation. Then ask her to eat lunch with you or something. No need to be romantic or anything.

yeah, so, bonne chance, and have a nice day! ~~

[Chosen Again]

Yes you obviously hate to be mean. (jk)

Seriously though there is not much more to say expecially if she's mad at you because you don't trist her after she's cheated on you more than once. And I have a question was she apologetic or was she mad when (and if) you made a big deal about. Of course if you havnnen't confronted her at all about it then it is possible that she's trying to see if you care.

P.S. Your avatar is awesome Lixel

[Chosen Again]

Here's the facts parent;s think you are going to go have sex. OS they don't want you to date untill you reach about the age of 16 which is when most people nowadays start doing it.

On the practical side, one of you should be 16 because I mean your parents driving. . .*shudders*

[JesseFan]

Well guys you know when I said earlier that I asked this one guy that I thought I liked and I told you he basicly said "no sorry".

Well my mum told me something the other day that made me realize something. And when I got to thinking about that and my reaction to the "no", I realized that I liked someone else.

Cause when the frist guy said no I thought that I would be upset, but I felt nothing. So that pretty much told me that I didn't really like, I mean I didn't really even know him.

So the other day I told one of my best friends how I felt about them and now we are dating. He's so awesome and I'm glad we are together.

I just had to get that off my chest, sorry if this is considered spam or something.

[Shadukai X]

^ Not spam at all, Its good news, and we're all here to help each other out. Good for you!

[Stavvy]

Grr...they merged more threads....Kinda confusing...meh oh well...

Also, good for you JesseFan. I'm glad that someone could help

[JesseFan]

lol Thanks you guys. You all were a big help!!!

[Stavvy]

We try...god life sucks right now...I'm not going to say why, but man....

[trinitysora]

why does it suck /////////////////////???????

[Sora-chan (SWE)]

Hello everyone, i need some help.
I am a very shy and not so attractive girl, my problem is that i have fall for the most popular guy in my martial art practise. i have talked to him and he says im a good "fighting buddy", but i want him to see me as attractive and a GIRL.

please how can i make him see me? please guys tell me what boys find attractive?!

sorry if my english is bad^^;

[Guardian Soul]

Originally Posted by Sora-chan (SWE)

Hello everyone, i need some help.
I am a very shy and not so attractive girl, my problem is that i have fall for the most popular guy in my martial art practise. i have talked to him and he says im a good "fighting buddy", but i want him to see me as attractive and a GIRL.

please how can i make him see me? please guys tell me what boys find attractive?!

sorry if my english is bad^^;

Well first off, you can't just ask what boys find attractive. Guys have different taste. Some guys like sex and looks, some guys like personality, some guys might want both.

Some guys could be homosexuals.

First off you should get to know him better. Hopefully you don't only like him for his looks.

And you shouldn't say your not attractive. Most beautiful woman are inseccure.

[Sora-chan (SWE)]

im sorry if i made you belive i like him for his looks, sure he is good looking, but thats not why i like him, he is kind, funny and really nice to talk to even for me and i am very shy.
the problem is that whit his looks it just make all the other girls in my practise to drool over him and he dosent sees me as a girl, he hits me on the side and give me high five as a guy friend. he even called me a guy.

someone have a advice on how to make him see i am a girl?

[Stavvy]

Hmm...well, I wouldn't really know, but maybe you should ask him what he wants in a girlfriend? Might work...

[kairigirl]

You could also hang around him outisde of practice. Do you see him at school any? Maybe ask if he would like to go get a drink or an ice cream or something somewhere after practice and you can be your own girly self. At the same time get to know him real good and let him get to know you. You two sound like you're already friends so it pry wouldn't be weird if you two went to get a drink or something somewhere.

[silverdragon1615]

Hmmmmmm, thats hard, from what you have said he thinks of you as a friend, a comrade, its kinda what I do with all the girls at my kung-fu school. Thinking of you as a friend is not bad in any way, that just means he thinks your fun to be around, Is there a formal get together ever with the people at your karate school, I know for me there is picnics, parties, as well as every year when we go to baltimore for the nationals, there is a banquet, where there is lots of dancing and where many of my kung-fu friends have got boyfriends and girlfriends. I guess just start showing how you fel, he seems like the guy who is very nice, so he isnt going to care on looks a whole lot.