Dating problems - Page 51

Dogenzaka · November 10th, 2006, 11:35 PM

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Why don't you get Katie to talk to him instead?

She doesn't think she can talk about it without getting him upset or something.

I tried talking but he says "*sigh* I think it was for the best...."

And you know, people in relationships have problems, yeah, but they work through the problems and get through them maturely. People can disagree and still love eachother. I don't see the logic behind their break-up, but I'm still gonna try to get them to at least talk to eachother a little more.

-Mint- · November 11th, 2006, 12:03 AM

Well, if he thinks it was for the best, I don't see any way it could work out for now :/

Dogenzaka · November 11th, 2006, 01:44 AM

I know he doesn't like the idea of breaking up for her, because I know he's just pushing things out of his life to make room for his problems.

He says it'll turn out fine, but Katie is most definitely not fine with that =/

-Mint- · November 11th, 2006, 02:16 AM

Before you realize this, please don't hate me. Realize I'm trying to point out the truth.

First off, he purposely brings other girls with him to a 'pary' and chats with them in front of her, ignoring her.

He leaves her at home after promising to take her to the movies, and instead goes with friends.

Syas they need to 'talk.'

I'm sorry, but it sounds to me like it'll be over for a little while. I don't want to be the omen on your friend, but it just seems she's going to have to get over it.

Dogenzaka · November 11th, 2006, 03:48 AM

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First off, he purposely brings other girls with him to a 'pary' and chats with them in front of her, ignoring her.

Well it was a costume party, and they were his friends. He wasn't talking to them alone or anything, his friends were there too. Besides, we're all Christian, and he's the pastor's kid. He wouldn't cheat =/

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He leaves her at home after promising to take her to the movies, and instead goes with friends.

Well that was cuz they were kind of in a fight and I think it was something about space between them.

Xehanort · November 12th, 2006, 06:45 AM

I'm having some trouble with my girlfriend. We've been going out for 10 months now. But in that time she's hurt me a lot by cheating and flirting behind my back. So she's angry because I don't trust her anymore. I don't know what to do. She knows what she's done and she doesn't care and I could never bring myself to end it with her.

Cloudy_Card · November 12th, 2006, 10:19 AM

Not to make you feel worse or anything, but it's a bit pathetic that you won't break up with a girl who cheats on you, and even worse, and girl who cheats and doesn't feel bad about it.

I'm usually all for the idea of making a relationship work and trying to fix a relationship up...but in this case, i'm gonna have to suggest you just break it off right here, since it seems like your girlfriend isn't really too great a girlfriend, knows it, and could'nt care less.

November 12th, 2006, 01:22 PM

break up with her. Everyone always says "Oh i couldn't break up with her ever." Bulls***. People in their 30s with kids are getting divorces, and some teeanger cant? Give me a break.

SuperEclipse · November 12th, 2006, 01:25 PM

I have to agree break up with her.. If she is cheating on you, she doesn't care at all for you and you don't need that. Your still young and your find some better for you.

Its her lost not yours..

Dredger · November 12th, 2006, 06:20 PM

I could see trying to make it work even if she cheated on you, people have weak moments and make mistakes. But to make that mistake and then continue making it, in one form or another, without the least bit of remorse.... She is using you, be a man, step up, and don't let her use you anymore.

The Chosen Key · November 13th, 2006, 01:36 AM

How do u know when a girl(s) has feelings 4 u? :wub:
And How do u talk 2 girls without them getting made at u?
Let me hear from some of u ladies.
(Please don't say anything negative)

(This is serious)

:cool:

Iwrestledabearonce · November 13th, 2006, 09:11 AM

That depends. . . HOW many people did she cheat with? If it was like, 1 - 3, then it was probably just a phase, or something. But if it was more, than you can be sure she was/is "losing intrest".

Also, if she's mad because you don't trust her, tell her why. "Why don't you trust me?". "Hm, let's see. . . you cheated on me.". That's something to say, maybe just a little less sarcastic.

And, if worse comes to worse, dump her. Your 17; you have plenty of time to find another girl, and start another relationship.

Dredger · November 13th, 2006, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Demonic Angel

That depends. . . HOW many people did she cheat with? If it was like, 1 - 3, then it was probably just a phase, or something. But if it was more, than you can be sure she was/is "losing intrest".

Also, if she's mad because you don't trust her, tell her why. "Why don't you trust me?". "Hm, let's see. . . you cheated on me.". That's something to say, maybe just a little less sarcastic.

And, if worse comes to worse, dump her. Your 17; you have plenty of time to find another girl, and start another relationship.

People don't go through a cheating phase. People make mistakes, if they truly care for you they feel remorseful and try their hardest not to hurt you again. If she has cheated on him 1-3 times she is using him, not going through a "see what I am missing" phase. If a girl cheated on me once, and was truly sorry, I would work through it. If it happened twice or more then it would be over, apparently that person didn't care as much as they proclaimed they did. Actions speak louder than words.

~~Shadukai X~~ · November 13th, 2006, 05:18 PM

I hate to be mean, but dump her pathetic arse. Shes lied, cheated, and flirted behind your back. Your only encouraging her by staying with her. YOu don't deserve someone like that, no one does. It'll be hard, I know it'll hurtyou, but you have to end it, trust me.

The Chosen Key · November 13th, 2006, 09:39 PM

Come On!!!
Somebody Help Me Out!!!