Dating problems

[Stavros]

So you still like the guy? Does he know this? Is he still going out with your friend? Is he going out with someone else? Are you sure that this isn't some major cruch(although I doubt they'd last...what over 3 years?) Do you want to take the chance that if he doesn't like you, that your friendship would most likely come to a train wreck? I NEED INFO!

[incandescenza]

well, he knows i like him, thats for sure, yes i still like the guy, yes he still has his girlfriend, and i've liked him for the past 8 years, not three (im sure crushes don't last that long either). info enough?

[Stavros]

Sorry about the year discretion(Whoa I know a big word....) You don't have your age down. My advice would be to be open about your feelings to him...but there is the fact that he has a gf....hmm...maybe wait for the breakup then take the rebound...wait that only works for guys...cause girls get hurt more.....(No offence)...well update, or atleast try to, once a day and we'll work something out

(now give me my $150 cause I'm a therepist....)

[Phoenix]

That would be low and underhanded, Stavros.

Get over him would be the best recommendation. Or tell him you like him, and play the game on his reaction.

[Ty Leonheart]

Maybe this will help. I used to like a girl a lot. She had a boyfriend and she knew I liked her. I basically got over her by acknowlegding the "there are more fish in the sea thing". I still like her just not as much.

[incandescenza]

yeah, i guess getting over him would be my best bet... but how exactly do you get over they person you've loved for 8 years? thats liek, impossible! and as i said before, i already told him i like him, and he was okay with it, but at the same time indifferent. and thats what also makes it hard, because he didn't turn me down or treat me any differently (ok, well, we're more open with each other, but thats it), and since none of that happened, i've had nothing really to help me to get over him

[Stavros]

Originally Posted by Ty Leonheart

Maybe this will help. I used to like a girl a lot. She had a boyfriend and she knew I liked her. I basically got over her by acknowlegding the "there are more fish in the sea thing". I still like her just not as much.

....was that girl named Amanda?

Also,axelownshardcore, maybe you should look for someone else...I mean, what's the worst that could happen? You end up liking someone else?

[jazz16]

I don't have this dating problem but my friend, so she and he been going to geather for bout 1in a half years now she's 16 and he's 19. And lately she has been getting bored with him cause he never take her to the movies any more or take her out to eat. They argue alot and he even told her that he don't trust her anymore even though she did nothing. The girl is now growing bored of him and found someone else that she likes in school,and he likes her too. But he told her that she have to brake to with her boyfriend if she wants to get with him. But the girl don't wanna break up with her boyfriend cause they been through alot with each other (and i mean alot) and she don't want hurt his feelings. So what's a girl to do? stay with the guy who she don't love as much anymore, Cheat, Break his heart of what.

[Ty Leonheart]

[quote=Stavros;1786614]....was that girl named Amanda?

If you must know I'm talking about Shawna.

And to Jazz: Tell your friend that cheating is not the best policy. If she likes this guy more than her current boyfriend then she should break up with him. Otherwise stay with him.

[Nehxaa666]

hmm...so to keep up to date...
i guess kiara and i are now an 'item'
yeah, matching rings and everything
but bob doesn't know yet
and i think we're only doing it to get emma upset
cause i don't think kiara wants to be around her anymore
cause like she finally realized that it's always emma that starts our fights
so yeah, today emma and her crew were talking trash bout us
they don't know we're an item yet
and well, kiara just like yelled at them and walked away
and she told me that she wouldn't take any of emma's calls
although she already has....and she asked them if they were still friends
and emma said 'i don't know'
so yeah....but emma asked kiara to go to the movies with her
so yeah
kiara turned her down
so what do y'all think?

[╬ProperArtist╬]

A real issue, like I said let it just unfold don't get too involved sounds like the fight is more with your friends, they just seem to drag u into them situations....just sit back and let them handle it themselves....

[Brutal]

Okay, here's whats happening:


1. She wont makeout with me. Its really stupid, she hasnt before, and she is scared.

2. Ok, last month, I asked her to go trick-or-treating with me, kenzie, and steven, she said yes, then the next week her neighbor gave her "An invatation and everything!" so she decided to go with her, we got into a huge fight over that.

3. She's mad because I'm really good friends with her best friend (kenzie) and her boyfriend (steven) and tell them everything me and her talk about, except if she especially tells me not to. I really love her and all, but sometimes she gets really annoying and jealous.

Help?

[Guardian Soul]

...Your a bad boy friend?

Atleast tell us why she might be doing this...

[<Roxas>]

1.Tell he that you love her dude and there is no one else you rather be with yo
2.Tell her that she is safe around you and she has nothing to fear yo

3.Take it at her pace yo

[Guardian Soul]

Originally Posted by <Roxas>

1.Tell he that you love her dude and there is no one else you rather be with yo
2.Tell her that she is safe around you and she has nothing to fear yo

3.Take it at her pace yo

Your advice sucks yo.

...Yea yo.