Dating problems

[silverdragon1615]

Ok please don't make fun of me for this but I need girl help. Ok here is how it started, I went to a good friend of mines barmitzvah yesterday, he doesn't go to my school, his family is just friends with mine. So i arrive at the party later when I see this girl, and I am like woh! She probably the most beatiful girl I have ever seen! So the DJ at the party says he needs 11 brave boys and 11 brave girls. So I volunteer and so does she, the game was called the Cinderella game. Every girl throws one of thier shoes into a pile and the boys run up and pick them, and whosever it is the slow dance with them. So i'm like I have to get that shoe!!!!! I get it and we slow dance, she was really nice and she was going into the 8th grade like me. She seemed to like me and when it was over, she said thank you and hugged me! Then some her friends ran up to me and asked if I like her, I said she seems like a very nice girl, since I am a little shy in that matter. Then people started freak dancing, I don't know how this happened but she came up to me, put my hand on her stomach, and I was pressed up behind her freak dancing! it was probably the best moment of my life, I figured that her friends would talk to me some more after the party, and asked me what I thought of her and then I planned to ask her out on a date, but before it ended my parents came and told me I had to go! The music was blasting loud and she was dancing in a huge crowd! So I just said good bye and left! That night and tonight I was sooooooooo frustrated! I have no phone numeber or anything, and I need to see her again! So if you guys could please lend me some wisdom on this matter it would be greatly appreciated! Thanks guys, please don't make fun of me for this.

[Fullmetal blader]

Aww, heh, that's really sweet! Just ask whoever invited her to the barmitzva (spelling?) for her number.

[violent_anger]

er...do you know her name?

[Texkia26]

get her phone number from the host of the barmiztvah and call her! and don't be shy, i bet she'll remember you if you call!

[silverdragon1615]

Yeah thanks I ws thinking of that, but it just seems a little weird just calling her like that, what if she thinks thats creepy or something? I am not totally sure she really likes me, it seemed like it, but I need to know for sure.

[Reckless Chaos]

First off you should have stepped ya game up and talked to her before hand. Ya can't be shy all ya life. Just found out if she goes to ya school or, ask your friend to call her while your with him or, on the phone with him. Then start talking to her. Sure fire plan.

[Xelris]

ok bro, listen here, if she liked you enough to freak dance, she'll love it if you called her. trust me on this.
and listen to kingnaruto, hes right, you should spit harder. dont throw to much game at it though, that kinda creeps them out. play it cool. this is how u do it, if they act like they like you, act like you like them. if they act like they want nothing to do with you, act the same. its all a game that you have to play right. once you know how to play thier game, you can win everytime

[silverdragon1615]

Originally Posted by King Naruto

First off you should have stepped ya game up and talked to her before hand. Ya can't be shy all ya life. Just found out if she goes to ya school or, ask your friend to call her while your with him or, on the phone with him. Then start talking to her. Sure fire plan.

You know that just might work, if he is there and talks to her too that could really help! I am possitive she doesn't go to my school though she said she went to a different one, I don't really remember which, but thanks!

[Vexond]

Im not a girl but like everyone else said. you cant be shy all your life, you cant pull any girls like that but for some advice though you should have atleast asked for her name, so then when you talk to someone about her they might know who you talkin about and can help you get her number.

[silverdragon1615]

Originally Posted by Vexond#15

Im not a girl but like everyone else said. you cant be shy all your life, you cant pull any girls like that but for some advice though you should have atleast asked for her name, so then when you talk to someone about her they might know who you talkin about and can help you get her number.

Oh I do know her name, sorry I forgot to mention it's Emily.

[Xelris]

yea dude, confidence is the key

[Reckless Chaos]

Originally Posted by Xelris

this is how u do it, if they act like they like you, act like you like them. if they act like they want nothing to do with you, act the same. its all a game that you have to play right. once you know how to play thier game, you can win everytime

There is a flipside. If they don't like you then you can make them like you if you have the right game. Don't be forcefull. You gotta know what to do. If they do like you then some girls like it when you act like you don't care. You can do this even if ou shy. I do it and i'm shy myself.

[silverdragon1615]

Originally Posted by Xelris

yea dude, confidence is the key

Yeah I know man, the only thing is though I wasn't the only one who freak danced with her, other guys did it too, but they all came to her.

[Reckless Chaos]

Originally Posted by silverdragon1615

Yeah I know man, the only thing is though I wasn't the only one who freak danced with her, other guys did it too, but they all came to her.

SHe came to you so, that means she likes you. They had to come to her because she didn't want to come to them. She only danced on them because she was being nice and wanted to dance. She danced on you because she wanted to dance with you and she's telling you that she likes you.

[silverdragon1615]

Originally Posted by King Naruto

SHe came to you so, that means she likes you. They had to come to her because she didn't want to come to them. She only danced on them because she was being nice and wanted to dance. She danced on you because she wanted to dance with you and she's telling you that she likes you.

Thanks man I appreciate that, I hope its true!