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Old November 5th, 2009, 05:19 AM   #1
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Default Nicest way to break it to friend that her love interest doesn't like her back?

what the question is asking.

well..she's hyped about how she wants to believe that the guy likes her.. but the guy's guy friends told her he liked another girl. but other people told her that he does like her, but those people where completely random..but they know both the girl and boy.

but im pretty good friends with the guy. his best friend and i are friends, and when i saw my friend[girl] and the guy she likes in the same area, i wanted them to like, at least interact, but his[guy she likes] best friend told me that he doesn't like her... i was...disappointed. when i asked who he[guy my friend likes] likes, he[guys best friend/myfriend] told me he likes this other girl...[i didn't really ask for a name or anything, but he just said, "she's not in the room. oh wait now she is[some girl came in and out and it was her, i reconfirmed it with him]"] i don't really know the girl or anything, heck i don't even remember who she was.

well anyways.

she's getting her hopes up.

her other friend keeps telling her that she shouldn't get her hopes up. [i think she knows that he doesn't like her back,but them two are like best friends[the girls] so im sure she doesn't want to tell her...at least not yet]. but she told me[fiend who likes the guy] that she wants to believe he likes her maybe and all that. she knows that the other friend doesn't want her to get her hopes up and all.

im pretty sure that the guy and the guy's friends know that she likes him though;

i know she really cares for him and all, iv witnessed it several times.

either way her feelings are going to get hurt, i know. iv asked what she would do if he doesn't like her, she said that she would just stop trying to like him... obviously she will still like him a little bit.

baw. any help on how to break it to her..

or well, i don't want to break it to her. he should be the one to do it. i know.

well, at least some ways to prepare her for the breaking...? >~>
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Old November 5th, 2009, 05:43 AM   #2
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.......I AM SO CONFUSED. XD

Seriously though, couldn't tell who said what. Felt like Hermione in the Goblet of Fire movie when Harry and Ron weren't speaking.
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Old November 5th, 2009, 05:50 AM   #3
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Uhhh that was confusing.

Anyway I would'nt break it to her but don't encourage her if the guy dos'nt like her at the same time don't be a downer.

does she talk to him at all?
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Old November 5th, 2009, 06:31 AM   #4
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"He's just not that into you."
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Old November 5th, 2009, 06:34 AM   #5
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but that's mean.

i mean a super nice way.

or a way for her to realize that he's not that into her w/o saying that..err..or w/o making it obvious..
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Old November 5th, 2009, 06:40 AM   #6
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Unfortunately, being someone's friend means you have to be able to tell them things even when they don't want to hear it. So just grit your teeth and do it, she should hear the truth from you rather than in an awkward situation later.
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Old November 5th, 2009, 06:46 AM   #7
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the thing is she's been planning on telling him for several weeks. she doesn't really have the guts at the moment. she said she will tell him when they're both alone, but he's always surrounded by people.

i could try to get some of his friends away for a while, so that they can have their chat or w/e. well, she told him that she would tell him who she likes and shit when they're alone, but i doubt he thinks anything grand of it, or that it's him who she likes. lol.

or break it to her...but i don't feel comfortable butting into that...she should learn, i think. plus i would have no idea how to break it to her, and would feel awful about it....
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Slap da ho, then ditch da ho.
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Old November 5th, 2009, 06:55 AM   #9
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that's hella mean though! D:<
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Slap da ho, then ditch da ho.
Wouldn't she get in trouble?
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Old November 5th, 2009, 07:02 AM   #11
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trouble? o__0

but still, that's effing mean! >~>"

maybe ill ask him if he's interested in anybody. see what HE says.
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trouble? o__0

but still, that's effing mean! >~>"

maybe ill ask him if he's interested in anybody. see what HE says.
she might tell her mom or something
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Old November 5th, 2009, 07:08 AM   #13
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who the fuck tells their parents when they get hurt? o__0

it's not like they're little elementary kids oo
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who the fuck tells their parents when they get hurt? o__0

it's not like they're little elementary kids oo
I mean that seems like a pretty traumatic thing for a girl.
Your best friend smacks you and ditches you. I'd think she would cry about it to her mom or whoever would listen...
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Old November 5th, 2009, 07:11 AM   #15
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but i would never do that in the first place, it's so cruel.
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