Homecoming Date Issues

[Vossler]

Alright, here it goes. I asked this girl to homecoming and well, after going out with here a couple times to get to know her better before taking her to the dance I have came to find out that she is an eminence bore. I mean she is horribly boring, bitter, and well not pleasant at all, what so ever. I went of looks and not personality, and now it is biting me in the ass.

Now then there is this other girl who I have know for awhile now (since 4th grade) and she just transfered to my school, and I forgot how hot she is (this time I played it smart, instead of going of looks I made sure to get to know her first.) and she is nice and has a great personality. So we went to the soccer game together, and she said that she wanted to go to our homecoming, but had nobody to go with, I knew that was my shot, but I didn't take it because I had a date.

I want to take this girl to homecoming no matter what, and I know she wants me to take her. So my question to you KHI is, how do I drop my old bore of a date, for my new hottie, great personality of a date? I need to know this, I only have 3 days to work with here. I need help.

[madammina]

You don't.

Look, you made a commitment, and dropping the old girl 3 days before homecoming comes off as bad taste.

Keep on talking to the new girl, introduce her to one of your friends who doesn't have a date (double date maybe?) and keep up the friendship. Then, when homecoming is over, ask her out again to a real date. Or for the next dance.

[Vossler]

Originally Posted by madammina

You don't.

Look, you made a commitment, and dropping the old girl 3 days before homecoming comes off as bad taste.

Keep on talking to the new girl, introduce her to one of your friends who doesn't have a date (double date maybe?) and keep up the friendship. Then, when homecoming is over, ask her out again to a real date. Or for the next dance.

Hook here up with one of my friends, now way. I want her hooked on me, Homecoming is also a good ice breaker, it leads to a follow up, almost always it leads up to a follow up date. I want my follow up date with her, not the other old, boring, drab, chick. I want my cute, round faced, beauty.

[madammina]

Neither girl will like you if you drop one 3 days before picking up the other. Just make sure the new girls entrance into your schools social life is easy, and try not to go with the old girl from before, break it off gently.

You're going to come off as a jerk if you just ignore the old girl.

But, that's my advice. Take it or leave it. You're pick.

[Vossler]

Originally Posted by madammina

Neither girl will like you if you drop one 3 days before picking up the other. Just make sure the new girls entrance into your schools social life is easy, and try not to go with the old girl from before, break it off gently.

You're going to come off as a jerk if you just ignore the old girl.

But, that's my advice. Take it or leave it. You're pick.

she though the girl already knows quite a few people already at the school, most of them guys, I don't want her to get taken, by one of those many douchebags. I really don't think that she has to know that I broke it off with another girl.

[madammina]

She'll probably find out, some how.

Just make sure you are a constant (not stalkerish) presence. That will help keep you in her mind.

[Vossler]

Originally Posted by madammina

She'll probably find out, some how.

Just make sure you are a constant (not stalkerish) presence. That will help keep you in her mind.

That is hard to do in my school, and the other guys she hangs out with will start to piss me off. I don't think she will find out, not by way she is talking anyway. The other date isn't going to know that I dropped her for another girl either.

[madammina]

Have you EVER heard of Facebook? My Space?

They WILL find out, somehow.

Speaking of which... talk to her on facebook too.

[Vossler]

She doesn't have a Facebook, nor do I. I talk to her on Myspace and text her. I really don't see how they will find out though. Even if one of them did it is nothing I could talk my way out of.

[Chris]

Originally Posted by Vossler

Hook here up with one of my friends, now way. I want her hooked on me, Homecoming is also a good ice breaker, it leads to a follow up, almost always it leads up to a follow up date. I want my follow up date with her, not the other old, boring, drab, chick. I want my cute, round faced, beauty.

personality doesn't matter when she's naked on your bed

by the way you talk is really fucking annoying

[scubasteve]

alright here's what you do (in eight easy steps)

1.) make a xanga
2.) use this xanga to whine and complain and bitch about the boring chick
3.) make a fake aim/msn/whatever
4.) message the boring chick using the fake account and pretend you're an old flame from school
5.) show her the xanga, it will cause her to get really pissed and start crying
6.) console her as this "old flame"
7.) ask her to homecoming
8.) with boring chick out of the way you can ask the super hot chick

[madammina]

Originally Posted by Vossler

She doesn't have a Facebook, nor do I. I talk to her on Myspace and text her. I really don't see how they will find out though. Even if one of them did it is nothing I could talk my way out of.

Myspace is the same deal.

If you dump her, this will end badly.. and even later on. It could establish a pattern of behavior.

Look, my opinion is you made a deal, and you are honor bound to keep this deal, even if you don't like it anymore.

Once this deal is fulfilled, however, you are free to do what you want.

And DON'T treat your current date like dirt. She'll hate you for it.

[Vossler]

Originally Posted by scubasteve

alright here's what you do (in eight easy steps)

1.) make a xanga
2.) use this xanga to whine and complain and bitch about the boring chick
3.) make a fake aim/msn/whatever
4.) message the boring chick using the fake account and pretend you're an old flame from school
5.) show her the xanga, it will cause her to get really pissed and start crying
6.) console her as this "old flame"
7.) ask her to homecoming
8.) with boring chick out of the way you can ask the super hot chick

Damn why didn't I think that it was this easy, I should have looked at it more. Thanks Steve.

[scubasteve]

i hope you're not being sarcastic i put a lot of effort into that post

[Vossler]

Originally Posted by scubasteve

i hope you're not being sarcastic i put a lot of effort into that post

Oh I am not, the Xanga option didn't even occur to me, and the fake MSN account is brilliant as well ( I love MSN so it is a plus) I just got to get this stuff mapped out and done within a day and a half.