Troubles

[Rapidus Procella]

I havent came to you guys in quite a while, but I fear that my situation right now has come down to a serious stage:

Well here it is, I dumped my Ex-Girlfriend yesterday, and at first i thought it was the right decision, and for the entire time after i dumped her, it felt right, but as i continued along the day, and even into the night, i began to reconsider my situation. Like when i went to bed, all i could think was if my decision was the right one, and if it was then why do i feel so bad for what i did. Also, I had a dream of her saying how much i love her, and how letting her go was the gravest mistake i have ever made. She was the one person who liked me for me, and yet i dumped her,and just let her go out of my hands. I have no idea to feel sorry for my pathetic self, or feel bad for how much i hurt her. I still love her, and yet at the same time, i feel some sadness inside my heart.

[Shadow Soldier]

Lol and what's your problem? Of course you're going to think about her.

Fuck, even when you reeeeally want someone bad before your dating, you dream about them and stuff. It's natural. And of course your going to wonder if you did the right thing or not. Everybody does. It's natural. But what sucks is the aftermath, of how EVERY LITTLE GOD DAMN THING POSSIBLE REMINDS YOU OF THE PERSON YOU LOVE!

(sorta going through it myself). Just don't beat yourself up. If you made the decision to do it in the first place, then there was obviously a reason.

[Prajna]

Well many, after the first week or so after a break-up, contemplate whether it was a good decision or not. You might even have awkward meetings which is normal also. I don't know much about relationships but I hate seeing people down on stuff like this. My best advice to you is to try to talk to her to clear the air between the two of you. Find some way to break the ice and have a nice civil conversation so that you can both be friends still and so you can stop living with that somewhat regret. I hoped this helps you in any way.

[Nevermore]

Sounds pretty typical if you ask me. It's called "vulnerable", lol. Yes, it happens to guys too.

[Rapidus Procella]

Originally Posted by Shadow Soldier

Lol and what's your problem? Of course you're going to think about her.

Fuck, even when you reeeeally want someone bad before your dating, you dream about them and stuff. It's natural. And of course your going to wonder if you did the right thing or not. Everybody does. It's natural. But what sucks is the aftermath, of how EVERY LITTLE GOD DAMN THING POSSIBLE REMINDS YOU OF THE PERSON YOU LOVE!

(sorta going through it myself). Just don't beat yourself up. If you made the decision to do it in the first place, then there was obviously a reason.

Yeah, i just don't know what that reason is now. Like i did at first have one solid reason, but now i just dont know what it will be anymore.

Originally Posted by Prajna

Well many, after the first week or so after a break-up, contemplate whether it was a good decision or not. You might even have awkward meetings which is normal also. I don't know much about relationships but I hate seeing people down on stuff like this. My best advice to you is to try to talk to her to clear the air between the two of you. Find some way to break the ice and have a nice civil conversation so that you can both be friends still and so you can stop living with that somewhat regret. I hoped this helps you in any way.

Yeah if only it was that easy. Just having to talk to her might bring up a "certain" subject that might cause awkwardness, or even uneasiness.