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Old September 4th, 2009, 12:33 AM   #1
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a few months ago i had the greatest bf ever...we never fought and we were both very passionate for eachother. Well anyways he stopped talkign to me and cut me off completely for about a month. Wel it turns out he was sick and had a two weeks to live. well he died before i could see him and all but his mom gave me his guitar....idk...i had a lot of friends pass on but i cant cope with this on....i dont know how i can get over it...do any of youhave an y method to fillt his empty hole inside? or anything to make it feel less bottomless?
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Old September 4th, 2009, 01:20 AM   #2
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Couldn't have been a very good boyfriend if he died without you knowing.
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Old September 4th, 2009, 01:21 AM   #3
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Not to be nasty but... uh never mind.
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Old September 4th, 2009, 01:23 AM   #4
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Sounds like he was to die for.
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Old September 4th, 2009, 01:24 AM   #5
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Sounds like he was to die for.
oh you're too much.
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Old September 4th, 2009, 03:30 AM   #6
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get drunk and play pokemon.

that usually helps me deal with depressing situations.
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Old September 4th, 2009, 03:33 AM   #7
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a few months ago i had the greatest bf ever...we never fought and we were both very passionate for eachother. Well anyways he stopped talkign to me and cut me off completely for about a month. Wel it turns out he was sick and had a two weeks to live. well he died before i could see him and all but his mom gave me his guitar....idk...i had a lot of friends pass on but i cant cope with this on....i dont know how i can get over it...do any of youhave an y method to fillt his empty hole inside? or anything to make it feel less bottomless?
oh poor you... I felt the same way when I dumped my old GF...I fill the gap by fufilling addictions like videogames and reading manga usually and coming on here...
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Old September 4th, 2009, 10:27 PM   #8
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his mom told me he cut me off because he didnt want me toknow about him being sick, so i'm not upset aobut that....still itry to play games until to the point of addiction, but it's not really helping me....and idk...but help is help...i'll take it anyways

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Old September 5th, 2009, 05:59 AM   #9
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OH SHI-

sorry for your loss, that has to be really rough for someone to bear but time will be on your side and you'll hopefully find someone like him
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:03 AM   #10
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his mom told me he cut me off because he didnt want me toknow about him being sick, so i'm not upset aobut that....still itry to play games until to the point of addiction, but it's not really helping me....and idk...but help is help...i'll take it anyways
Sounds like something out of a shitty fanfiction.
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:05 AM   #11
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Sounds like something out of a shitty fanfiction.
please leave...just so you know, it wasnt one of those awesome guitars, it was just some old busted guitar. and i dont even know how ot play....still, damn it....i gtg....
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:11 AM   #12
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Im deeply sorry for your loss.

It hurts even about thinking about someone you love dieing...

If I where him before he had died... I would have treated you like shit. I would broken up with you, pretended I was some fake bastard. Why? That way you wouldn't get as hurt as you are know. You probably wouldn't have known he would die if you two would have broken up before. Trust me. It would have hurt less that way.

Sadly you can't do anything about it now.

If you're like religious.. I recommend you pray to him everyday. Think about him. Errr... but don't think of him as an option or as a boyfriend anymore. He's fucking dead. Try getting that through your head. He won't be coming back. If it helps, find someone new. But don't automatically stop thinking of him... But just don't think of him as a bf anymore and all longing for him.
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:13 AM   #13
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ughh...yeah...i'll try to do that....i am a some-what religous person, i was talking about it to crossroad some time ago about me seeing him again...i dont know, it's been quite a while now i and i have been trying to avoid posting help but, lately, it's been getting really tough.thanks for your advise though.
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:16 AM   #14
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She asks a legitimate question about a problem that is not funny in any way, and the most useful thing any of you can think to say involved booze and Pokemon? I realize that not many of the things posted in this section can or ought to be taken seriously, but what the fuck? Don't get me wrong, I am not naive and in this medium I will never be willing to discount the possibility that she is just lying for attention -- but are you motherfuckers so desensitized that you think Help and Support gives you reprieve to ridicule anybody who decides to make a thread here?

From this post onward, if you don't have anything even slightly constructive to say, do everybody a favor and just don't fucking speak.
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Old September 5th, 2009, 06:22 AM   #15
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Try not to dwell on it, that's the most important thing.
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