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| unsympathetic. | I've had Parental Controls on my account ever since we got our new computer in December. At first it wasn't much of a problem for me. No sites were blocked off, since my dad knew I didn't go on the bad sites and I was free to download (sort of) anything I wanted to. Then a couple months ago, my dad found out he can enable time limits and control when I could use the computer. When I come back home on the last day of school, I was hoping I could go on whenever I want to, but when he sees my report card, he goes onto the computer and blocks off more time than he did during the school year. Which I don't get because this trimester was probably my best one (all As and a B) Now everyday I can only go on until nine, which is totally stupid, since I don't have any school, and I can't go on the computer until one (well, he said he might change that). I also can't go on from six to eight for some reason, and I have to share the computer with my sister, so the amount of time I get is very limited now. Does anyone know any good excuses or how to convince my dad to get more time on the computer? I've been studying more like he wanted me to and I even finished my summer project the first two weeks of vacation. So far, nothing I've said or done helped. I just hate being shut off in the middle of a conversation with my friend or when I'm doing something important. I'm also on the verge of retiring from the staff, because I don't think I'll be any help at this point, due to the limited amount of time I had(Parental Controls wasn't much of a problem when I joined) . I'm not very good at convincing other people, so some help would be really nice. I never got why Indian parents are always so strict. Thanks~ |
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| | #2 |
| Cozza Frenzy | Ouch, that's clearly harsh. Not sure what you can do, other than to just live with it. Maybe try to talk to him saying that you are responsible enough to be able to go on whenever you want. |
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| | #3 |
| Starting anew Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Swinging from the stars Age: 15 Posts: 1,011
Rep Power: 2 ![]() Level: 9 EXP: | Wow that's really stupid he's limiting it so much. Just try to convince your dad that you're responisble enough to limit your time on the computer. With my dad a thing that worked for me in the school year was that 15 minutes of studying/homework= 30 minutes of computer |
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| | #4 |
| Premium Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Yes Age: 16 Posts: 1,699
Rep Power: 2 ![]() Level: 10 EXP: | Ask him. Make him give you a reason why you cant go on. He might see that his methods arnt helping anything. |
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| | #5 |
| Fuck man wats rong wit u? | My father once blocked me entirely from a few sites, so my answer was to hack my way out of it. Very simple on some sites, but seeing as you're being blocked from the computer itself, I'd say resort to blackmail. Or just attempt to appeal to logic. |
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| | #6 |
| Universe is a popcorn shower Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: In a cereal box Posts: 3,300
Rep Power: 6 ![]() Currently playing: Okami, 358/2 Days Level: 15 EXP: | Ugh, strict parents. I'd go with what Lycanthrope said. Tell of how you're responsible. I'm gonna guess that you're the older sister so I'd add in the fact that since you're older you deserve more freedom on the computer (gosh that sounds like something about curfews). You got all As and a tiny B plus finished a project early. You've done your best and made sure that you got something done ahead of time so that you're ready for school. It seems like you'd be on the honor roll. Other than that, I don't know what else you could do. Save up some money to buy a laptop but that's gonna take a long time. Just going to have to put up with it for a while unfortunately. |
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| | #7 |
| Premium Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Yes Age: 16 Posts: 1,699
Rep Power: 2 ![]() Level: 10 EXP: | How long does your sister get on the internet? |
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| | #8 |
| Ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho | Just go onto your dad's computer and "hack" your time to what you want it to be. |
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| | #9 |
| Plat. | If it is a Windows Vista that you are using this is very easy to get around. I don't know what you are using so I don't know how to help you much. Did you try to tell your parents taht you are actually a staff member on a big site? Well if you are using Vista you can "reset" the system, which resets everything and all(including the Parental times to zero a.k.a no time limit) If you are a PC gamer this will reset all of your game files and stuff as well, I don't know if you are or not. That should work, if you have Vista, XP, I have no idea. |
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| | #10 |
| Waker of the winds Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Outset Age: 18 Posts: 5,862
Rep Power: 9 ![]() ![]() ![]() Currently playing: L4D2 <3 Level: 25 EXP: | |
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| | #11 |
| Starting anew Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Swinging from the stars Age: 15 Posts: 1,011
Rep Power: 2 ![]() Level: 9 EXP: | If you hack it thoguh it'll be hard for her dad not to find out about it |
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| | #12 |
| none of our secrets are physical | I can understand your Dad's point of view, actually. It's never too healthy to spend too much time at the computer, and parents completely exaggerate the perils of the internet. As others have said, explain that you want become responsible and mature, and you think being able to manage your time, and making decisions yourself will be beneficial to the process of growing up. You said that you don't like your access being restricted when in the middle of something "important". If it is something truly important, then you should be able to explain that to your father. Make it clear that using the computer is useful, a great way of keeping in touch with friends, a great resource of information...etc etc. Also, stress that going on the computer won't hinder your life in any way (if you believe it to be so), as I'm sure your father is concerned that it may waste your time, and often people are less responsive and animated in ordinary life if they've been sitting in front of a computer screen. |
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| unsympathetic. | Quote:
I get his password every Friday, but he checks the time limits after I go on, so it's pretty pointless. About same time as me, I get a little more time, since I'm older. Quote:
But I fear that my dad would put time limits on that, too. He says he'll buy me one at the end of summer but knowing him...I doubt. Quote:
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My dad's excuse would be just periodically save your work though, and it won't be a problem. | ||||
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| | #14 |
| NO DEAL!!! Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: At a Buffet of Orphans Age: 17 Posts: 3,547
Rep Power: 5 ![]() ![]() Currently playing: .Hack G.U. vol. 2 Level: 25 EXP: | Getting shut off in the middle of a project is rough. I would bring that up a lot. When it happens you probably lose your train of thought entirely. |
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| | #15 |
| Carry on Wayward Son Join Date: Apr 2007 Age: 16 Posts: 4,412
Rep Power: 7 ![]() Level: 37 EXP: | Go out of the house more. Your dad will see that your not as much of a nerd that he thought you were and will take that limit of as quick as a jiffy. O wait |
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