helpppppppp girl problemmm

trentp1223 · 06/12/08, 03:48 AM

the girl i like just broke up with her bf and is coming to me crying....what should i tell her?

Vice-Versa · 06/12/08, 03:58 AM

Oh man thats the Worst.

I hate when that Happens. This puts you in the worst Postion Possable.

You can either

A)Be the Good Friend you are and help her though her current Situation

B)Take advantage of the Situation and be the Pity Boyfriend

or

C)a Combination of the both A and B

**Frozen Fate** · 06/12/08, 04:02 AM

Eh. Start out good friends. She might come to like you. All in all, you guys eventually hook up.

trentp1223 · 06/12/08, 04:08 AM

SHE JUST TOLD ME SHES BULEMIC!!!!!!!NOW I HAVE TO BE A FRIEND OR IM GOING TO HELL

**Frozen Fate** · 06/12/08, 04:15 AM

Well, that's new. Never been through that one with a girl...

Tell her the point of eating is to swallow it, not spit it out...

**Toasty!** · 06/12/08, 04:26 AM

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Originally Posted by trentp1223

NOW I HAVE TO BE A FRIEND OR IM GOING TO HELL

uh wat?

Since when?

ViVi94 · 06/12/08, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Frozen Fate

Well, that's new. Never been through that one with a girl...

Tell her the point of eating is to swallow it, not spit it out...

lol. Nicely said. Anyway... Tell her about the awesome time bulimics have in those kid rehab centers that keep you for months at a time until she's better. Then explain how comfy the cheap flea infested matresses are. And don't forget to leave out the awesome prison like conditions all around. :D Well... be nicer than THAT but still, get that point across that it can ruin her life and her stomach.

big don mega · 06/12/08, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by trentp1223

SHE JUST TOLD ME SHES BULEMIC!!!!!!!NOW I HAVE TO BE A FRIEND OR IM GOING TO HELL

this happens to me all the time. thats actually not a joke either. i mastered the art of breaking bulemia. if she's telling you then it's probably for attention, so just ignore it and if she brings it up just tell her that you don't care

now if it's not for attention though, you just fu**ed yourself by telling her that you don't care, so i guess you really got to think of if she's the type of person who does shit for attention

ViVi94 · 06/12/08, 07:45 AM

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now if it's not for attention though, you just fu**ed yourself by telling her that you don't care, so i guess you really got to think of if she's the type of person who does shit for attention

in other words, I would say not doing ANYTHING for a week. If she really wouldn't do things for attention. Then don't say I don't care. Some girls go suicidal after crap like that, especially after breaking up with someone (Trust me, there are some suicidal freaks in the world these days that would kill themselves because they got an F. It's possible!)

Endless Reason · 06/12/08, 07:50 AM

Well... I'd say, take her out somewhere nice, and have some time just to fully talk it out with her... If it ends up that she feels better for doing so, she'd more than likely end up liking you for doing so i reckon... thats just my opinion

**Frozen Fate** · 06/12/08, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by big don mega

this happens to me all the time. thats actually not a joke either. i mastered the art of breaking bulemia. if she's telling you then it's probably for attention, so just ignore it and if she brings it up just tell her that you don't care

now if it's not for attention though, you just fu**ed yourself by telling her that you don't care, so i guess you really got to think of if she's the type of person who does shit for attention

Dude, even telling her you don't really care f***s you regardlessly. Pretend you care, talk to her about it, and see if she actually is bulimic.

**snowdog** · 06/12/08, 03:01 PM

Make sure you're positive she's bulimic. There's a difference between being upset and losing your appetite a little bit for a few days following something upsetting like this, and her eating then making herself throw up. Look out for suspicious signs such as her consistently leaving to go to the bathroom after eating a lot, as well as changes within her eating habits. If you have reason to believe she has an eating disorder, let an adult who you can trust know about the problem. Bulimia is a serious disorder, and it'll be much better in the long run if you help her quickly.

However, if she's saying it for attention... T.T

For now, I guess all you can do is try to be a good friend. Keep an eye on her. Show that you're there for her, and you can be trusted. Even if you do like her, now isn't the time to act on it, not until she's feeling better. She's bound to be upset.

Hope everything turns out well.

<3

Sam · 06/12/08, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by trentp1223

the girl i like just broke up with her bf and is coming to me crying....what should i tell her?

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Originally Posted by trentp1223

SHE JUST TOLD ME SHES BULEMIC!!!!!!!NOW I HAVE TO BE A FRIEND OR IM GOING TO HELL

ahahahahahahahahaha

I think that this has the potential to become one of my favorite threads in recent times.

Dexel · 06/12/08, 07:16 PM

Hahaha. I have to agree with you, SoS.

Krateroi · 06/17/08, 10:38 PM

Just be a friend, try to not take advantage of her. She'll come to trust you dearly.

06/12/08, 03:48 AM	#1
trentp1223 Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2008 Age: 14 Posts: 147 Rep Power: 0	helpppppppp girl problemmm the girl i like just broke up with her bf and is coming to me crying....what should i tell her?

06/12/08, 03:58 AM	#2
Vice-Versa =EMO Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: The Mainstream Chicago Age: 20 Posts: 1,391 Rep Power: 6	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Oh man thats the Worst. I hate when that Happens. This puts you in the worst Postion Possable. You can either A)Be the Good Friend you are and help her though her current Situation B)Take advantage of the Situation and be the Pity Boyfriend or C)a Combination of the both A and B

06/12/08, 04:02 AM	#3
Frozen Fate VOTE FOR HOKAGE Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Killadelphia Age: 15 Posts: 4,648 Rep Power: 9	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Eh. Start out good friends. She might come to like you. All in all, you guys eventually hook up.

06/12/08, 04:08 AM	#4
trentp1223 Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2008 Age: 14 Posts: 147 Rep Power: 0	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm SHE JUST TOLD ME SHES BULEMIC!!!!!!!NOW I HAVE TO BE A FRIEND OR IM GOING TO HELL

06/12/08, 04:15 AM	#5
Frozen Fate VOTE FOR HOKAGE Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Killadelphia Age: 15 Posts: 4,648 Rep Power: 9	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Well, that's new. Never been through that one with a girl... Tell her the point of eating is to swallow it, not spit it out...

06/12/08, 07:50 AM	#10
Endless Reason My Reason? It's Endless Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: That little place I call home Age: 15 Posts: 2,500 Rep Power: 5	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Well... I'd say, take her out somewhere nice, and have some time just to fully talk it out with her... If it ends up that she feels better for doing so, she'd more than likely end up liking you for doing so i reckon... thats just my opinion

06/12/08, 03:01 PM	#12
snowdog YARR Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: n. 1. a place of settlement, activity, or residence; 2. a place or situation occupied Age: 18 Posts: 6,163 Rep Power: 11	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Make sure you're positive she's bulimic. There's a difference between being upset and losing your appetite a little bit for a few days following something upsetting like this, and her eating then making herself throw up. Look out for suspicious signs such as her consistently leaving to go to the bathroom after eating a lot, as well as changes within her eating habits. If you have reason to believe she has an eating disorder, let an adult who you can trust know about the problem. Bulimia is a serious disorder, and it'll be much better in the long run if you help her quickly. However, if she's saying it for attention... T.T For now, I guess all you can do is try to be a good friend. Keep an eye on her. Show that you're there for her, and you can be trusted. Even if you do like her, now isn't the time to act on it, not until she's feeling better. She's bound to be upset. Hope everything turns out well. <3

06/12/08, 07:16 PM	#14
Dexel Organization Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Outer Heaven. Posts: 495 Rep Power: 2	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Hahaha. I have to agree with you, SoS.

06/17/08, 10:38 PM	#15
Krateroi Lion of Islam Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: In my basement alone and free! Age: 15 Posts: 2,290 Rep Power: 3	Re: helpppppppp girl problemmm Just be a friend, try to not take advantage of her. She'll come to trust you dearly.

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