So, uh ...

[TheLastKnight]

I wouldn't feel weird. It should feel a bit normal.

[Enchanted Rose]

Originally Posted by Rhythm of Apathy

Uh, why not?

Uh, surely it's different for everyone.

Someone who is 14 might have the mental and physical maturity of another person who is 16. Why would that make the 14 year old trash if they had sex?

Besides, I think it's more important to have sex with someone you'd been with a while, even if you are only 14/15 than have a one night stand at 16.

[JUSTICE]

If you're only 14/15, then it obviously isn't long enough.

Jeez, I never thought I'd ever say it, but sex is more special than it's made out to be.

I know people who've rushed into it. They did it so they could tell their friends afterwards. Sure if both people in the relationship miraculously possess the physical and mental maturity of a 16 year old, then by all means go ahead.

But you don't really think this is the case the majority of the time, do you?

[Enchanted Rose]

Not really.

I think that 16, which is the legal age in the UK, is probably the right age to start having sex. But I would never think that anyone who had underage was trashy especially if it was with someone they were in a secure relationship with, and they were mature enough to handle the 'consequences'.

And, obviously I exclusively meant sex when I was talking about the physical aspects of a relationship. Hell, the girl probably wouldn't even be into more affectionate kissing.

lol trash.

[bamak93]

You shouldn't feel weird.

Here's some examples of similar situations I've seen:
Freshman girl dating Junior guy
8th grade boy dating 7th grade girl
Sophomore girl dating senior guy
and the weirdest yet, a 6th grade girl dating a senior.

oh yeah, and my dad's 2 years younger than my mom.

almost all of the above never felt weird, so don't let it get in your way.

the only one that didn't work was 8th+7th, which oddly enough was me, and ended horribly for all parties involved.

Lesson? Be sure to date someone you'll see for at least 2 hours a day minimum!

[Ecstasy]

Originally Posted by Mickxey

Lesson? Be sure to date someone you'll see for at least 2 hours a day minimum!

I don't think that's true. I don't see my boyfriend every day and I definitely would not want it like that. Especially when you're younger, you need time alone.

[Mr Despair]

I think everyone has over exposed the word "sex" in this thread. Just because they are young that doesn't mean it'll happen, sure statistics who that the percentage of that happening are real, but by you guys mentioning to the kid he might get the wrong idea about the whole concept of a "relationship" Not all 12/14 year olds think about sex, so it shouldn't be shown as a factual scenario.

hai ER ^_^ * glomps

[dakdakgoose]

its not a really big deal, just don't get too carried away at such a young age.

[Gavin]

Originally Posted by Mysterious

no you shouldn't
but according to your age (14) she's 12
so you might not have much fun with her because she's still a kid

With some rope and duct tape anyone can have fun.

so i herd that sex drive also includes kissing and making out

[JUSTICE]

And I was exclusively referring to intercourse?

Just drop it DK, this thread was sex.
I used you.
I neglected you afterward.
And now you're whining for more.

Make a point I actually give two ****s about, and I'll consider a round two. =O=P=D

[Steve]

Originally Posted by bamak93

You shouldn't feel weird.

Here's some examples of similar situations I've seen:
Freshman girl dating Junior guy
8th grade boy dating 7th grade girl
Sophomore girl dating senior guy
and the weirdest yet, a 6th grade girl dating a senior.

oh yeah, and my dad's 2 years younger than my mom.

almost all of the above never felt weird, so don't let it get in your way.

The sixth grader and the senior should feel pretty damn weird.

The thing about the age difference is that it becomes less of a problem as you get older. My parents are three years apart, but they didn't meet until after high school. But then just imagine a, for example, fourteen year old dating an eleven year old. That'd be more awkward than two college students being three years apart.

[Sam]

Originally Posted by Rhythm of Apathy

Jeez, I never thought I'd ever say it, but sex is more special than it's made out to be.

Originally Posted by Rhythm of Apathy

You're careless, backstreet trash if you do it before fifteen, and nothing you tell me will convince me otherwise.

brb, church

[JUSTICE]

Yeah, pretty funny thing when a weak agnostic has moral values.

That, and a taste in slightly older women.