some guys messing with my girlfriend

[Felix]

Glad to see that everything worked out. Now just for the date that you were talking about and I hope it goes and such. Just be happy and hopefully, everything will be all right.

[Johnny Stooge]

You know, if she was hot enough, I'd move in on another man's turf.

[kabal]

Originally Posted by Sephiros_TH

I'm not one to dump my problems on other people but I'm really at a loss on this one.

I got into a relationship with this girl in school like two weeks ago, everything has been going pretty smooth except for once thing. One of her "friends", by the way I've hated him for 2 years now, has been touching her in places he aught not to, its not sexual harassment or anything but still I haven't been doing those things and yet she lets her "friend" do it and not her boyfriend? HUH? so I talked to her about it and she told me not to worry that she'll tell him to stop. Well its been four days since she "told" him and nothing has changed. I'm not sure if this is just what Americans do, I'm sorry not to sound ignorant or anything but I've lived in the states for a while but I still hold on to my European morals. All I can say is that in the country I come from he'd get his teeth knocked out and that'd be the end of it, but in the US I'd be a sent to a correctional facility and I don't really wan that. My girlfriend also doesn't want me to step in and impose my authority because he's her friend. He's really stepping on my toes but I can't really fight back. Oh yeah I don't think I mentioned that I was diagnosed with clinical depression about three months ago so thats not helping much either. I really like this girl and I hope this relationship will last but this guy has to stop cuz he's messing with my cultural boundaries and I can't take much more.

So any words of wisdom. Any helpful advice? cuz I could really use it right now.

Go slap him in his face .

[Domon Kasshu]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

To the ppl who say kick his ass, no. You can't solve these kind of problems by beating the hell outta someone, it only makes things worse.

Contrary to popular belief, violence does solve everything.

[Fonzo]

sure but after alot of wounds and pains both people have to endure, but...if you have to hurt him, do it emotionaly cuz it last forever

[heartless person]

YOU NEED TO TELL THIS GUY TO BACK OFF YOUR GIRL BEFORE SOMTHING HAPPENS TRUST ME SOMTHING LIKE THIS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Fonzo]

heartless person is right, act but not to hard or your girlfriend will get pissed, just hard enough to get the point go thru. Try a non violent approch as those are sometimes the most effective.

[Frozen Fate]

She sounds worse than any girl I've dated. You should probably dump her.

I mean, she sounds like a whore.

Originally Posted by heartless person

YOU NEED TO TELL THIS GUY TO BACK OFF YOUR GIRL BEFORE SOMTHING HAPPENS TRUST ME SOMTHING LIKE THIS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Obvious statement much?

[Fonzo]

Most likely, Frozen Fate, your right and most likely she is a whore but we have to wait for Sephirose's decision.

[Sephiros_TH]

No longer can I struggle. There is nothing left. I have lost another battle again, same as always. No matter how I fight it will all turn to naught in the end. Never again am I to feel the warmth of her body, never again to feel the warmth of her compassionate words. No this beaten dog has been let off its chain to go find another. But there is no one else out there, no just an everlasting, never ending, hopeless battle that will be lost in the end. Perhaps the last beating is somewhere on the horizon, but for now this beaten dog waits for the next strike to come.

[Morningstar]

Originally Posted by Sephiros_TH

No longer can I struggle. There is nothing left. I have lost another battle again, same as always. No matter how I fight it will all turn to naught in the end. Never again am I to feel the warmth of her body, never again to feel the warmth of her compassionate words. No this beaten dog has been let off its chain to go find another. But there is no one else out there, no just an everlasting, never ending, hopeless battle that will be lost in the end. Perhaps the last beating is somewhere on the horizon, but for now this beaten dog waits for the next strike to come.

She was a whore anyways, seriously.

Move on to someone better.

[Sephiros_TH]

She not a whore. She was going through an intense stress disorder and didn't tell me. I wasn't hurting her but I wasn't helping. Its just a bad time for her. I don't really care she still has feelings for me so maybe later but for now I'll enjoy the new disturbed stuff and then who knows. Its time to stop thinking of past and future, live in the now.

[Agent007]

Dude just freaking move on.

[TwilightMan]

If she let the dude touch her and didn't let you touch her, then she was a whore. (No offense about the stress disorder thing) Only whorish girlfriends let other guys who aren't theirs touch them. So, like everyone else has said, freaking move on. There are more fish in the sea, but you just have to catch the right one.

[Frozen Fate]

Originally Posted by TwilightMan

Only whorish girlfriends let other guys who aren't theirs touch them.

The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

You won't get over it immediately, but you will get over it.