I don't know.... - Page 2

Maitaj · 05-03-2008, 01:07 AM

Yeah... just try to let him go. I know its very hard, but you gotta eventually... Hell, i'm having a hard time trying to get over my break up, but with friends around it makes it a hella lot better

shattered hearts · 05-03-2008, 01:35 PM

ok... thank you all lol. but my friends... i doub't they'll be able to help very much... they've got their own problems that they're dealing with *wow i didn't realize what a pathetic bunch we are untill just now lol*

and i talked to him last night, and he said we needed to talk about it, because i started b!tching at him - again... but he was at a party, so i guess we'll see if he remembers or not...

**gungonX** · 05-03-2008, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by shattered hearts

ok... thank you all lol. but my friends... i doub't they'll be able to help very much... they've got their own problems that they're dealing with *wow i didn't realize what a pathetic bunch we are untill just now lol*

and i talked to him last night, and he said we needed to talk about it, because i started b!tching at him - again... but he was at a party, so i guess we'll see if he remembers or not...

Hey no, hold up. No one is pathetic, everyone has their ‘ups’ and ‘downs’ in their life, and people have different ways of dealing with them, we are just happy you were mature enough to confine in someone about it. <3

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baka ushi · 05-03-2008, 01:41 PM

If he's suicidal, I say avoid him. Going out with someone who's like that is totally setting yourself up for a terrible relationship and possibly mentally abusive relationship.

**gungonX** · 05-03-2008, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by baka ushi

If he's suicidal, I say avoid him. Going out with someone who's like that is totally setting yourself up for a terrible relationship and possibly mentally abusive relationship.

True, it can be quite a bad influence, and can give you a not so nice social status.

shattered hearts · 05-03-2008, 01:51 PM

he's not... suicidal... he just has alot going on right now... at least i don't think he is.

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Originally Posted by gungonX

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thank you! thats nice, i will be sure to.

Ninja Usagi · 05-03-2008, 09:25 PM

What were their reasons for them saying he's treated you like dirt?
Just name off a couple things that he's done.

There has to be a reason for your friends saying he isn't good for you.

Morningstar · 05-03-2008, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninja Usagi

There has to be a reason for your friends saying he isn't good for you.

They're probably right.

I have a friend whos boyfriend treats her like shit, and she doesn't see it at all.

shattered hearts · 05-03-2008, 09:49 PM

its just sometimes, he'll just kinda ignore me, like not contacting me for a while, or giving me no notice before he comes to town. thats all.

Ningacom · 05-03-2008, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by shattered hearts

its just sometimes, he'll just kinda ignore me, like not contacting me for a while, or giving me no notice before he comes to town. thats all.

that doesn't sound like treating you like dirt.....so much as just being ****ing annoying.

shattered hearts · 05-03-2008, 10:02 PM

ya thats my idea. woo-hoo! *finally someone who says the same!*

Ninja Usagi · 05-04-2008, 11:46 PM

I dunno. I'm kinda paranoid myself so if he leaves when we're in a relationship I usually think some thing bad has happened.

But yeah, if you're gonna get in a relationship with this guy, I suggest preparing for the worst.

shattered hearts · 05-05-2008, 02:12 PM

lol ya i've already done that... but we talked the other day, and he has no idea what he's doing... he got really confused when i told him about it and was like "wtf?". But he is really busy, because he teaches and has classes and everything else. So I do understand, I just get pissed when he ignores me. And my friends say he shouldn't do that and I should get rid of, but he doesn't do it that often... and he's a really forgiving person. And long-distance is really hard, but if everytime we see each-other is really great, then somehow I think it's worth it.

05-03-2008, 01:07 AM	#16
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05-03-2008, 01:35 PM	#17
shattered hearts Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2007 Location: In a forgotten meadow wishing on the last dandilion Age: 18 Posts: 189 Rep Power: 2	Re: I don't know.... ok... thank you all lol. but my friends... i doub't they'll be able to help very much... they've got their own problems that they're dealing with wow i didn't realize what a pathetic bunch we are untill just now lol and i talked to him last night, and he said we needed to talk about it, because i started b!tching at him - again... but he was at a party, so i guess we'll see if he remembers or not... __________________ Wake me when I can look you in the eyes and tell you I'm ok. If there are no roads left to walk... break down the walls! (\___/) (='.'=) (")_(") This is Bunny. Copy and paste Bunny into your signature to help him gain world domination!! Because that's what bunnies do.

05-03-2008, 01:41 PM	#19
baka ushi Twilight Knight Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Boston, babes. Age: 17 Posts: 871 Rep Power: 5	Re: I don't know.... If he's suicidal, I say avoid him. Going out with someone who's like that is totally setting yourself up for a terrible relationship and possibly mentally abusive relationship. __________________ When I was a child, I had a fever. My hands felt just like two balloons. Now I've got that fever once again. I can't explain; you would not understand. This is not how I am.

05-03-2008, 09:25 PM	#22
Ninja Usagi Twilight Knight Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Geneva, Illinois, USA Age: 17 Posts: 881 Rep Power: 5	Re: I don't know.... What were their reasons for them saying he's treated you like dirt? Just name off a couple things that he's done. There has to be a reason for your friends saying he isn't good for you. __________________ 雅 Miyavi!! <333 Thank you, Crow~.

05-03-2008, 09:49 PM	#24
shattered hearts Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2007 Location: In a forgotten meadow wishing on the last dandilion Age: 18 Posts: 189 Rep Power: 2	Re: I don't know.... its just sometimes, he'll just kinda ignore me, like not contacting me for a while, or giving me no notice before he comes to town. thats all. __________________ Wake me when I can look you in the eyes and tell you I'm ok. If there are no roads left to walk... break down the walls! (\___/) (='.'=) (")_(") This is Bunny. Copy and paste Bunny into your signature to help him gain world domination!! Because that's what bunnies do.

05-03-2008, 10:02 PM	#26
shattered hearts Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2007 Location: In a forgotten meadow wishing on the last dandilion Age: 18 Posts: 189 Rep Power: 2	Re: I don't know.... ya thats my idea. woo-hoo! finally someone who says the same! __________________ Wake me when I can look you in the eyes and tell you I'm ok. If there are no roads left to walk... break down the walls! (\___/) (='.'=) (")_(") This is Bunny. Copy and paste Bunny into your signature to help him gain world domination!! Because that's what bunnies do.

05-04-2008, 11:46 PM	#27
Ninja Usagi Twilight Knight Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Geneva, Illinois, USA Age: 17 Posts: 881 Rep Power: 5	Re: I don't know.... I dunno. I'm kinda paranoid myself so if he leaves when we're in a relationship I usually think some thing bad has happened. But yeah, if you're gonna get in a relationship with this guy, I suggest preparing for the worst. __________________ 雅 Miyavi!! <333 Thank you, Crow~.

05-05-2008, 02:12 PM	#28
shattered hearts Warrior of Darkness Join Date: May 2007 Location: In a forgotten meadow wishing on the last dandilion Age: 18 Posts: 189 Rep Power: 2	Re: I don't know.... lol ya i've already done that... but we talked the other day, and he has no idea what he's doing... he got really confused when i told him about it and was like "wtf?". But he is really busy, because he teaches and has classes and everything else. So I do understand, I just get pissed when he ignores me. And my friends say he shouldn't do that and I should get rid of, but he doesn't do it that often... and he's a really forgiving person. And long-distance is really hard, but if everytime we see each-other is really great, then somehow I think it's worth it. __________________ Wake me when I can look you in the eyes and tell you I'm ok. If there are no roads left to walk... break down the walls! (\___/) (='.'=) (")_(") This is Bunny. Copy and paste Bunny into your signature to help him gain world domination!! Because that's what bunnies do.

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