Lonely

[Darkness Princess]

Aww... Poor Snow! D=
*hugs*
Ok... Ummm... Do you know anyone at your school or art class or something who has similar interests as you do? If you do, gather up the courage and go talk to them, k?

[Frozen Fate]

Originally Posted by snowdog

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Our school has no clubs. I mean none whatsoever. No sports, no arts, nothing. =/ Nor is there like, a sports centre anywhere nearby, or anywhere such a thing would take place. Yeah, where I live fails hard. We have nothing.

I feel terrible today. >.> ... *rant*

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No sports? I swear I would die if I lived where you do.

See if you could start some clubs at your school or something then. Has that possibility ever come up at your school?

[snowdog]

Originally Posted by Darkness Princess

Ok... Ummm... Do you know anyone at your school or art class or something who has similar interests as you do? If you do, gather up the courage and go talk to them, k?

Some interests are kinda shared, as in taste in music. If all else fails we could talk about art.

Originally Posted by Frozen Fate

No sports? I swear I would die if I lived where you do.

See if you could start some clubs at your school or something then. Has that possibility ever come up at your school?

They tend to stop after one session because not enough people show up. That and it has to do with funding and stuff.

I really appreciate this. <3

[Frozen Fate]

That sucks. I don't know where I'd be if my school didn't have sports. Or extra-ciricular activities.

[snowdog]

They really don't have anything D: It was such a pain trying to write activities down on university applications as a result.

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[KingDoom]

LOL. your just like me!!!!

my "friends" don't like me, they never include me unless all their othe options are gone, i gots other people who are kinda my friends, my suggestin is do what i did, and are still doing, find other people and talk to them, hang out, and stuff, then you'll get new friends. OR try to be with "cool people", then your friends would be, like, jeouls and want to be with you or something


point is, GET NEW FRIENDS!!!!

worked for me, sorta

[Frozen Fate]

How could a school have no extra circular activities? Even my elementary school had them. hat is probably a big reason why you're in that hole.

[Darkness Princess]

Then, all you have to do now is pick a group of people or a person and just go for it. ^_^
Talk the people in your classes since there aren't any extracurriculars.

[Darkly Aesthetic]

Originally Posted by Frozen Fate

How could a school have no extra circular activities? Even my elementary school had them. hat is probably a big reason why you're in that hole.

Some schools don't have the funding for them.
My school is getting rid of everything ecept sports and choir..cause apparently, we're really good at those.
So most people make due finding friends without them.

Really snow, you don't need ALOT of people to have fun, just ONE really good person who you enjoy being around and who likes you for who you are.

I'm 100% percent sure that person is out there somewhere in your school, you just have to look a little harder and try talking to a lot of people to see if it's them :D

[Leonard]

Originally Posted by snowdog

I guess it's time to find new friends... DX

Aw come on, I think it's a bit too early for that, snow. xD

Originally Posted by snowdog

I'd like to think it were a misunderstanding on my part, like maybe I'm looking too hard, but when I think about all of it I think I have a point.

That's very well possible.

Just a little suggestion: How bout you give us an example for such a case, where you felt "left out" by your friends.

Then other members here could help you with judging the whole situation and tell you if you're really just overreacting or not. The others here might see it differently than you do.

Before you jump into conclusions and try to look for new people, maybe this could help you to clear up things a bit for yourself. <3

It's just a thought, though. :D

[gungonX]

Just from ebing on the internet and being able to experience a eFriendship with you is a total blast, your a young, smart, wonderful person, full of thought, don't know why someone wouldn't want for you to be the first chick they call to go out on a Friday night or whatever.

Not to brag or anything, but I've never been in such a situation, because I've always been one of the first to call for plans on a weekend etc. "I get the shiz pumpn' yo!"

Anyhow why not take action babe? Ask them why they aren't so accepting of you? Seek answers. That's what I'd do in your situation. I'll drop you a PM later, if ya wanna talk?

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[Enchanted Rose]

Originally Posted by Darkly Aesthetic

Really snow, you don't need ALOT of people to have fun, just ONE really good person who you enjoy being around and who likes you for who you are.

QUOTED for major truth.

When I was in sixth form, I moved friendship groups about 3 times, not because I'm excessively flighty, but just because everyone changes, and the first time I felt my friends were just really shallow, and were obsessed with being popular, and the next time it was kind of to avoid my ex boyfriend.

Once you find someone you get along with really well (in your classes or whatever), then you can start hanging out with them at lunch/break times and hope they'll integrate you into their circle. I'm sure people will be more receptive to you.

And I know it takes confidence to just change friends because you have to consider how your 'old friends will react etc, but I definitely think it's just worth it in the long run, to be with people you feel entirely comfortable with, that had the same kind of temperament and interests as you.

Either that, or just be a complete Nazi in organising social events for you and your friends, and just text around everyone like "HEY GUYS WHAT TIME ARE WE MEETING AGAIN?!!!" type thing xD

If it doesn't work out, remember not long until you're at University.

I don't think you should be made to feel this crap by people who are supposedly friends with you when it's obvious how much of a nice girl you are. So good luck.

[gungonX]

Originally Posted by Enchanted Rose

I don't think you should be made to feel this crap by people who are supposedly friends with you when it's obvious how much of a nice girl you are. So good luck.

So true, snowdog, you're a lovely girl, who deserves the best, if they can't at least uphold their duties as friends, move on and find some real peep's out there that like you for you, and not because your the last girl on the list to associate with. <3

[snowdog]

You guys are all so sweet :3 Seriously, I think you've been better friends than my RL ones. D: No, I know you have been. <3

Examples for you, Lenny...

- MANY instances of me trying to organise something - something I know they'd like, such as a trip to the city, or cinema, or something - and them completely overriding it, which usually results in them organising it themselves, not getting back to me when I ask about it, then going themselves. Without me.
- A few of them forgot my birthday despite me remembering all of theirs. I don't care about a card or anything, it'd just be nice for them to have said Happy Birthday.
- Me inviting them to things - to mine or something, which, granted, happens rarely because my house is really small - and them all saying they can't. This might be believable if it was like, a couple of them, but all of them, every single time?
- Them saying they can't do something because they're busy, which usually translates to "We made plans together". I have proof - they think I'm deaf and tend to discuss it the day after at school. Cause I'm totally not going to hear them. D:
- This time last year I had some problems. I told them about it and it sorta ended with them being kinda pissy with me and tending to leave me on my own. >.>
- Me telling one something, then them blabbing it to everyone else.
- Them discussing me with other people. I'm not paranoid. I know they're doing it - refer to above, they think I'm deaf or something.

Gah. D:

Thanks DA. <3

Thanks for all that, ER. I think it's the main reason I'm looking forward to university - I know there'll be people with the same interests as me, seeing as all the courses are specialised. I'm hoping I'll make some friends out of it...

GungonX, you're awesome. <3

I think when I get back to school, I'll ask them about it. It'd be too hard to talk to them all individually, or worse still, try to get them all together. =/

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[khluva010]

Originally Posted by snowdog

I think when I get back to school, I'll ask them about it. It'd be too hard to talk to them all individually, or worse still, try to get them all together. =/

Yeah that definately will help, and if not forget them! lol find some people who will love and respect you for you. I don't think I've ever met you in person, and we haven't talked in the forums before but from what I've seen and heard, your a pretty cool person!!! I mean obviously, you have like trillions of rep power and I believe you have your own FC, it shouldn't be too hard for ya! There are good people in the world and you're one of them and like I said you should find other people that are just as badass as you. But definatly talk it out with your friends. Sorry if this doesn't help.