Problems again

[Ningacom]

Good point. I mean... I want to say...

"You're wrong. She's the one person who actually listens to me when I talk, and I have hope that we'll be together longer then that"

But when I think about it, that's highly unlikely. Also, what I feel for her now is prolly just my teenage hormones doing what they do best.

This puts me in a pickle

Originally Posted by CAB_IV

your feelings are stupid and insignificant.

I should feel sad, or offended. But all I can do is laugh xD

[Axel Owns]

my advice would be to get one of her friends (i hope your close friends with at least ONE of them) to ask her who she likes, and then tell her she knows someone who likes this girl.

the girl will probably not tell, but the friend can put your name out, then you can see what happens.

i would say use text or myspace.

its happened to me before and it worked really well.

[CAB_IV]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

Good point. I mean... I want to say...

"You're wrong. She's the one person who actually listens to me when I talk, and I have hope that we'll be together longer then that"

But when I think about it, that's highly unlikely. Also, what I feel for her now is prolly just my teenage hormones doing what they do best.

This puts me in a pickle

Hey, if you will be happy with her, it will be worth it. Now you need to slow down. EVERYONE NEEDS TO SLOW DOWN. I've seen two MAJOR patterns with guy and love problems. They either can't communicate, or they go to fast/expect to much to early.

Hit the damned brakes for a minute, lol. you shouldn't think about giving her a kiss until after a couple dates, like 3 or 4 dates. by then you can probably assume she wants to stick with you.

I should feel sad, or offended. But all I can do is laugh xD

lol, sorry, i was in one of my depressive moods i get, but its good that it had a positive effect. That said, i don't necessarily take back the basic idea, since most early realtionships don't last, and it may not be wise to invest so much of yourself into them just yet.

Originally Posted by Axel Owns

my advice would be to get one of her friends (i hope your close friends with at least ONE of them) to ask her who she likes, and then tell her she knows someone who likes this girl.

the girl will probably not tell, but the friend can put your name out, then you can see what happens.

Except by the very fact of one of her friends asking that it creates suspicion. NEVER USE A MIDDLE PERSON. it never works. if she doesn't tell her, she might tell someone else who will, or the girl might guess. I mean, you already googly over her, if your name starts showing up shes going to put things together.

i would say use text or myspace.

its happened to me before and it worked really well.

Don't do this. this is the scaredy cat running away way to do things. talk to her by the phone, or talk to her in person. girls value that person connection you can't get through just typed letters.

[Ningacom]

Hey, if you will be happy with her, it will be worth it. Now you need to slow down. EVERYONE NEEDS TO SLOW DOWN. I've seen two MAJOR patterns with guy and love problems. They either can't communicate, or they go to fast/expect to much to early.

Normally, that's how I am. I mean, I take stuff RLLY slow. But as I said, I wasn't thinking straight that night. I'd been reading a lot of stuff about love, and watching similar programs. Plus, I've had to deal with the crowds of couples I have to see every day, and wonder if I want that same thing myself.

Hit the damned brakes for a minute, lol. you shouldn't think about giving her a kiss until after a couple dates, like 3 or 4 dates. by then you can probably assume she wants to stick with you.

*starts counting on his fingers*

I count 6 dates, so in that train of thought I wasn't going too fast. Even though I was.

my advice would be to get one of her friends (i hope your close friends with at least ONE of them) to ask her who she likes, and then tell her she knows someone who likes this girl.

the girl will probably not tell, but the friend can put your name out, then you can see what happens.

i would say use text or myspace.

its happened to me before and it worked really well.

that all sounds like advise for going out with her. But we are already, technically, going out.

Either way, I wouldn't use that approach. Thnx anyway ^^

[ViVi94]

Normally, that's how I am. I mean, I take stuff RLLY slow. But as I said, I wasn't thinking straight that night. I'd been reading a lot of stuff about love, and watching similar programs. Plus, I've had to deal with the crowds of couples I have to see every day, and wonder if I want that same thing myself.

I feel the same way. That's why I totally hate valentines day. I see people hugging and kissing eachother. It gets depressing, then I laugh when I see the same couple break up (without tears) the next day. So I don't know. I see your point, you don't want one of those annoying "week long" relationships. But ultimately, we really can't help you very much. Why? Because like just sucks that way