Problems again

[Princess of KH]

Glad everything at the movies worked out! ^^
You sound like you're doing good, so keep it up! & no pressure, seriously. WHen you get all 'pressured', you start to look like you are seriously nervous about doing anything, & it can look like you're following some list of rules on how to act, instead of being yourself. So, again, just keep being yourself!
& if you don't like dating, don't let anyone make you feel pressured to jump into a relationship. Most of the time, when ppl jump into relationships, it doesn't end up good.

Good luck! ^^

[Ningacom]

Ok... new problem.

My lame-ass friend was talking to the girl I like today (I have no idea what it was about.). Andapparently she wants me to ask her out. So at this point I'm getting rlly sick of this, it just seems so immature. "OMG, she tottaly likes you dude! Do you like her? She was talking about j00!!!"

Ugh

Anyway, I decided today that I'm going to talk to her and set all this relationship stuff straight. But there's a problem, I have no idea how to do it T_T. Halp

[khluva010]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

Oh joy, pressure ;

Oh my bad, I didn't mean to pressure you. :o

Originally Posted by Ningacom

...that depends...which one is the right anwser O.o;? Jk, it was just the 2 of us... ZOMG DISCO FEVAH!!!!

CHOO!!!!!!!!!!!! she wants you in her pants!!! ...... j/k ummm well if just invited you then she's probably been thinking about you more than just a friend....... ;] sorry it took me awhile to respond.

[TheLastKnight]

If you go to the movies and stuff with her, and go to places, as well as haning out...You may as well be dating...

[Ningacom]

So um... I told her I like her . And she likes me too (that's a positive). So I think we're dating now . It's.... odd. This whole dating buisness is actually starting to bother me, it all seems so rushed. We're going on a date this weekend (I have no idea where, need to figure that out), and hopefully I can work everything out then.

Ty to everyone for the advise ^^

[Princess of KH]

Glad everything worked out! ^^
If this whole dating stuff is bothering you, & if it seems rushed, than just take it slow. You don't have to do what everyone terms as 'dating'. My friend's older brother is sorta dating this girl, but not really. Here's the explination:
they hang out together
he takes her places on weekends
they consider themselves to be bf/gf
they're just taking it really slow right now, not rushing anything
basically, they're just really close friends, but they're a little closer than that.

See, that's not what everyone terms as 'dating', but they are still dating. They're just taking things slowly, & they're really good friends, in the first place.
Just take it slow, & you should be ok!
Hope everything goes ok! Good luck! ^^

[Gavin]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

So um... I told her I like her . And she likes me too (that's a positive). So I think we're dating now . It's.... odd. This whole dating buisness is actually starting to bother me, it all seems so rushed. We're going on a date this weekend (I have no idea where, need to figure that out), and hopefully I can work everything out then.

Ty to everyone for the advise ^^

Make the first move; she'll love you for it. Most women like it when the man makes the first move; it gives them a sense of comfort and relieves a lot of tension.

[Ningacom]

WEW! The almighty Ningacom has returned, asking for advise again (just one question, that's all). BUt first, an update.

I'm in love, positive now. I hadn't rlly talked to her when I made this thread, or when I posted in it. But after seriously getting to know her, it turns out shes amazing


Anyway, the point of this post. We're going out this Thursday, and I'm planning on making a move. My only question is, when would it be a good time?

[Gavin]

Look into her eyes and tell her that you are so thankful that she's in your life, make her feel like she's the luckiest girl alive. Then slowly go in for the kill.

Remember you have to make her feel that your not just wanting to get in her pants, respect her thoughts, tell her how much she means to you, but don't go over board, and always be honest. <3

Relationships strive upon the abiltiy to make the other feel he/she is worth everything. Give her everything.

[CAB_IV]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

WEW! The almighty Ningacom has returned, asking for advise again (just one question, that's all). BUt first, an update.

I'm in love, positive now. I hadn't rlly talked to her when I made this thread, or when I posted in it. But after seriously getting to know her, it turns out shes amazing


Anyway, the point of this post. We're going out this Thursday, and I'm planning on making a move. My only question is, when would it be a good time?

What kind of move? also, if this is fairly recent, be careful to not overstep your bounds.

[Ningacom]

Originally Posted by CAB_IV

What kind of move? also, if this is fairly recent, be careful to not overstep your bounds.

Like, a kiss. And we've had 4 dates now, so I don't think I'm overstepping.

Look into her eyes and tell her that you are so thankful that she's in your life, make her feel like she's the luckiest girl alive. Then slowly go in for the kill.

Remember you have to make her feel that your not just wanting to get in her pants, respect her thoughts, tell her how much she means to you, but don't go over board, and always be honest. <3

Relationships strive upon the abiltiy to make the other feel he/she is worth everything. Give her everything.

I was asking "when" but this is helpful too ^^.

Anyway, I just got back from the date.

And I did nothing =/. A little angry at myself. >.<

[Gavin]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

I was asking "when" but this is helpful too ^^.

Anyway, I just got back from the date.

And I did nothing =/. A little angry at myself. >.<

Well at 15, I wouldn't expect you to either. Also what I said before there is no exact time for, when you feel it, you'll know it.

[Sora RE+Mixed]

This is real helpfull. I turn 15 in 4 days(the 29) and im kinda in the same situation with a girl at my school. Its real nice to know that these guys and girls can help. Ningacom, your not alone.

[Ningacom]

Back, ONCE AGAIN!

I thought about making another thread, but I thought "Why bother?"

So I'm bringing this thread back with my newest set of problems.

For all those who HAVEN'T been keeping up with this, I'm in love

And yesterday, I went to this dance and met her there. And... I did something stupid

*rips hair out*

See, I tried to kiss her for the first time. Which was idiotic of me, since I know it wasn't an appropiate time. Obviously, I got rejected. She didn't seem upset, but I think I seriously overstepped my boundries.

But there's a bigger problem in this, WHY I was so hasty and forward with her.

That night, I saw my friend with his new gf. And regardless of what I tried to tell myself, I knew I was jealous.

Then later I saw another one of my friends with his gf. And they were so...close. And they hadn't been going out that long.

I guess I was just... envious. Which pisses me off, b/c I'd thought I was over such thoughts. But when I rlly thought about it, I realized I was sick of seeing other people happy and wanted what they had.

So, the point of this post.

1) Should I feel as bad as I do for being too hasty with the girl I like?

2) Am I being stupid for being envious of other ppl?

Ty for any and all advise and suggestions =D

[CAB_IV]

1) as long as she doesn't mind it to much, you're alright. Some girls have a higher tolerance than others. just talk to her. not about what you did, and if you already apologized, don't bring it up. If she still is nice an friendly with you, you're alright.

2) Yes and No. No, because its natural to want to be close to someone. Yes, because its a total waste of your time. your feelings are stupid and insignificant. I know that sound incredibly harsh, but i'm not saying it to be mean. Realistically, you won't give a crap about here by the time you're in college.

Its really a waste of feelings. then again, its not going to stop you from feeling like crap anyway, so get used to it. Love sucks. And don't let anyone else who is in a allegedly successful relationship try to tell you otherwise.