Not another relationship thread!!!

[Sorarules13]

Ok well there's this girl in my class that I like. A LOT! But, we're not really friends. I mean every so often I would talk to her but we never exactly had a whole conversation. I'm like 99.9999999999% sure she dosen't like me though. But I think I may be seriously in love with her. She's perfect for in every single way(well, nobody's perfect but you know what I mean)! Can you all help me kind of move aour friendship along so I can maybe tell her how I feel later. Oh yeah, and I'm changing schools after the end of this school year so I want to at least be good friends with her by the end of the year

[Angelsinflight]

well for one thing, do you have any classes with her? if you do, talk to her before or afterwards. just ask how she's doing and start a small convo.

you always want to start out small. if you jump ahead too far, you might get her suspiciuos and she might not want to talk back.

take small steps like i said and start small convos. with her. after a while, then start real conversations and strike up some interests.

don't talk to her all the time though. if you see her three times a day, dont always go up to her and attack her with convos. just talk to her once or twice a day and start from there.

thats my advice. and don't be nervous either! just be yourself ^^

[Ningacom]

Wait... u're changing schools? Then what's the point of getting to know her????

W/e, anyway I suppose it depends. If you rlly think it's that big of a deal (which I understand it is, just going through the steps) then simply talk to her. Don't be stalkertastic and start following her through the halls and waiting near her locker. If you have any classes with her, start up conversation. Of course, don't be all like "ZOMG, MY NAME IS (enter name here)!!! HOW ARE YOU ****ING DOING!?!?!?!?". Calm converstation, but be open to the fact that you two might just not be compatible.

On the other hand, you could always just choose to ignore it. Most of the time ppl obcess over someone else for like a month or two, embaress themselves somehow, then get over it. If you feel like skipping ahead, then just ignore it (I understand it's difficult, but it's better then wasting mind actvity.)

[Sorarules13]

Ok, just so you know, I go to a small private school. So 1 grade stays in 1 class the whole day(for the most part) like 7th graders are all in 1 class. same with 8th and 9th etc. So I see her all day actually.

Originally Posted by Ningacom

Wait... u're changing schools? Then what's the point of getting to know her????

Yeah well my parents really want me to go back to public school and I'm getting kind of tired of private school too. Once I leave, the only thing that I'll miss is Yasmine(that's the girl's name. and yeah, it's spelled with a y not a j)

W/e, anyway I suppose it depends. If you rlly think it's that big of a deal (which I understand it is, just going through the steps) then simply talk to her. Don't be stalkertastic and start following her through the halls and waiting near her locker. If you have any classes with her, start up conversation. Of course, don't be all like "ZOMG, MY NAME IS (enter name here)!!! HOW ARE YOU ****ING DOING!?!?!?!?". Calm converstation, but be open to the fact that you two might just not be compatible.

I don't know what to talk about to her. Sometimes I just tell her "What's up" or something but I never know what to say next.

On the other hand, you could always just choose to ignore it. Most of the time ppl obcess over someone else for like a month or two, embaress themselves somehow, then get over it. If you feel like skipping ahead, then just ignore it (I understand it's difficult, but it's better then wasting mind actvity.)

*whines like a baby* But I don't wanna forget about her! lol

also thanks for the advice angelsinflight xD

[Princess of KH]

Yea, i agree w/ Angelsinflight. Just slowly start conversations w/ her. Just make sure you be yourself. I mean, why would you want her to like you, if you're pretending to be someone else?

If you guys have something in commone, just ask her about it or something like that. You can easily make a friend by the end of the year, as long as you just talk to her. I don't think she'll freak cause you asked her how she's doing. Be yourself, & i hope thing work out!

[Destiny's End]

I have a suggestion. You said she was in your class, right? Start something simple like, "Did you get the Homework last night?" or something like that and work up a conversation with that.

Besides, if you really are switching schools, you better get her screen name or something to keep in touch with her.

[Pelafina]

Originally Posted by Destiny's End

I have a suggestion. You said she was in your class, right? Start something simple like, "Did you get the Homework last night?" or something like that and work up a conversation with that.

Disregard this, no one wants to talk about homework.

Find out what she likes outside of school, talk about that.

Once you have an actual conversation or two, go and sit with her at lunch.

[Forever Atlas]

not love if you dont really know her... pretty much lust buddy, an infatuation. So you can do 1 of many things. You could simply just go up to her tell her how you feel, either be rejected or accepted. Or Live with it yourself and get on with life. Or heck write her a note if you are afraid to go up to her. lol but all in all its just this... either you tell her how you feel and see how she responds or you keep it to yourself

as for moving your friendship along, its better to get your feelings out there first before you become more situated as "just a friend" cause then thats a hard situation to get out of lol.

want a cheap move? ask her for her number "just in case" you need it for school work or w/e lol... then hmm start textin her.. blah blah, goes on from there lol

[Pelafina]

Originally Posted by Smooth

want a cheap move? ask her for her number "just in case" you need it for school work or w/e lol... then hmm start textin her.. blah blah, goes on from there lol

That's not cheap, that's creepy.

You don't get a healthy relationship like that, you get a restraining order.

[Sorarules13]

You all have some good advice. I'll try starting a conversation on Monday. It's just so hard to get started talking to her though. Like, one time at lunch, she's sitting directly in front of me. I wanted to say something to her so badly but when I tried this nervous feeling came over me and I couldn't say anything! I couldn't even think about what to say to her anymore.I got so mad at myself. I guess I'll just have to get over that feeling

[Pelafina]

Originally Posted by Sorarules13

You all have some good advice. I'll try starting a conversation on Monday. It's just so hard to get started talking to her though. Like, one time at lunch, she's sitting directly in front of me. I wanted to say something to her so badly but when I tried this nervous feeling came over me and I couldn't say anything! I couldn't even think about what to say to her anymore.I got so mad at myself. I guess I'll just have to get over that feeling

If anybody suggests alcohol as liquid courage, disregard that.

Just overcome the nervousness the old fashioned way, it's not the end of the world if you fail.

But nothing'll happen if you never try.

[Jub Jub376]

Whatever happens, keep cool. Don't be nervous mate, just talk. Swallow whatever nervousness down, and just go with the flow (I am sooo turning hippie :D)

And talk about something interesting. But don't try talking about the weather (unless it's snowing or a tornado is like about to hit..or hurricane..or a meteor shower..hehe..), and try talking about something she is interested in.

If she's interested in a movie, talk about it. If she's interested in a toothbrush WHATEVER, talk about it. And be sure to eat something before chatting, or during, like at lunch. Show her you can eat properly and not like you live in a pig sty.

And the manners. Be polite, blah blah.

And yes, ALCOHOL IS A LIQUID COURAGE! / Sarcasm. Being drunk will only impair all of your senses, including sight, speaking legibly, walking correctly, and a restful awakening the next morning.

And just be yourself. Most of those of the feminine side of the human race tend to prefer men who just be themselves.

Quoted from 1001 Things Every Teen Should Know Before Leaving Home (Or Else They'll Come Back) -

469. They should know to not worry about being alone. God has plans.

[Ningacom]

Originally Posted by Jub Jub

And talk about something interesting. But don't try talking about the weather (unless it's snowing or a tornado is like about to hit..or hurricane..or a meteor shower..hehe..),

Attempt at conversation #1- So.... we're prolly gonna be dead tomarrow huh?

Originally Posted by Jub Jub376

and try talking about something she is interested in.

Attempt at converstation #2- Isn't that guy over there SOOOOOOOOOOooo cute??!?!?!

lol, my smart-assness (as well as my failure in spelling) aside, don't freak about it. Think bout it this way. If you get into conversation, the world keeps spinning. If she acts like a bitch to you, the world keeps spinning. If you get into slight conversation, then nvr talk to her again....

anybody who can finish that sentance correctly gets a secret suprise!!!! O.O

[Pelafina]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

lol, my smart-assness (as well as my failure in spelling) aside, don't freak about it. Think bout it this way. If you get into conversation, the world keeps spinning. If she acts like a bitch to you, the world keeps spinning. If you get into slight conversation, then nvr talk to her again....

If the world stops spinning though, I'm going to blame Sorarules13.

[Forever Atlas]

Originally Posted by Smooth

Originally Posted by Smooth
want a cheap move? ask her for her number "just in case" you need it for school work or w/e lol... then hmm start textin her.. blah blah, goes on from there lol

Originally Posted by Alethal

That's not cheap, that's creepy.

You don't get a healthy relationship like that, you get a restraining order.

??? how does a restraining order come from texting a friend/classmate? -.- u make no sense. I didnt say send her perver stuff or stalk her.... if she gives him her # then obviously she expects him to contact her for one thing or another.