Not another relationship thread!!! - Page 3

Princess of KH · 03/21/08, 01:27 AM

O.O wow. Sorarules13, you've got quite a bit of advice on this whole topic...but that's a good thing!
About the phone # thing, here's how a lot of girls feel when you ask them for their # for help w/ homework stuff:
they think that you like them, because you could just call one of your friends for homework help, instead of her.
Not every girl is like that, but it's really common. I'm glad you're starting to talk to her, though. That's good! Just make sure you be yourself, & don't use cheesy pick-up lines! Omgsh, i hate when guys use those on me. Cheesy pick-up lines can be the most annoying thing in the world, so stay away from those, & you'll be good.
If she has Facebook or Myspace, talk to her on there. Those sites are great ways to keep in touch w/ ppl.
It sounds like things are going good for you, so keep it up! Just don't try too hard - girls catch on to that (most of the time) & it gets on their nerves (that's if you get annoying). But i think you'll be okay!

Another thing, just remind yourself that you are so lucky to have found someone that you like this much. I'm 15, 7 i don't like any of the guys that i know. I go to a private school, so i don't see as many ppl as other ppl do. I don't know a lot of guys, & the guys that i do know tend to be immature & act like they are the coolest guys in exsistance. It gets annoying, all too quickly. I'm 15, & the only guys i know that aren't immature are seniors, & we're too much like family (no, i am not related to any of these guys, just in case anyone was wondering) to go out.
But, i really don't care about having a bf right now, & i've never had one (yes, i am okay & no, i'm not crazy.). All i'm trying to say is - remember how lucky you are to even have a girl that you like this much. It sounds like you really like her, for who she is.

One last thing. Don't worry about messing up when you're talking to her. Like if you try to say something, and you accidentaly say something else. It's embarrassing when you do get tongue-tied or forget what you were going to say, but don't worry about it. Nobody's perfect. A lot of girls think it's cute when guys mess up like that. It kinda helps the girl be a little less shy, cause it shows that you're a human too, and it's ok to talk to you normally instead of being shy. (ALL humans mess up in convos - if you haven't yet, you will. Just wait...)

Ninja Usagi · 03/22/08, 06:40 PM

You shouldn't say you love her AND that she's perfect in one falling swoop. That's just stupid.

Believe me...I know. <<

Just make sure you TALK to her a lot before doing this.
If things go out right, you become friends.
Then invite her to go out with friends and stuff.
If that works out, go out alone.

Jet · 03/23/08, 04:30 PM

YOur stepping up in the world,dude.BUt,as others have said,be yourself.Chill.Who knows,keep up how you are doing now,and you might have a girlfriend:D

**Charlie K** · 03/24/08, 05:13 AM

Tell her she has nice shoes.Not even kidding, I todl I girl she had sweet shoes, we dated for..4 months or so..It was.. well weird but epic..If that doesn't work, just follow her, but not in a creepy way, normally follow..and..wait...

Shit your 14, I thought it said 11...NVM, except the shoes thing.Shoes are awsome.They are.

Princess of KH · 03/26/08, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden Knight

Tell her she has nice shoes.Not even kidding, I todl I girl she had sweet shoes, we dated for..4 months or so..It was.. well weird but epic..If that doesn't work, just follow her, but not in a creepy way, normally follow..and..wait...

Shit your 14, I thought it said 11...NVM, except the shoes thing.Shoes are awsome.They are.

Yes, shoes are awesome! I just had to say this...but just keep being yourself!

**Forever Atlas** · 03/26/08, 08:54 PM

lolz shoes. compliment anything about a girl in a good way, not creepy lol and of course she'll like it.

Ninja Usagi · 03/28/08, 04:10 AM

Uh...why shoes? What if the girl doesn't give a shit about her shoes?
Compliment her shirt or something in plain sight. If she wears a clip in her hair say her hair is nice.

**Pelafina** · 03/28/08, 04:13 AM

F*ck yeah, shoes.

Complements on her clothing are good though, just don't go overboard with it.

Princess of KH · 03/28/08, 08:22 PM

I really don't think it matters if you tell her you like her shoes or not. If she's good at discerning, she'll know if you mean it or not, & you shouldn't lie anyway, so don't think you HAVE to compliment her shoes! It's not the world's best pickup line or anything! & don't compliment her if you don't mean it. THat's a total lie & girls DON'T want to be lied to. Who wants to be lied to, honestly? Be yourself & you'll be ok! THere's a quote (one of my favs cause it toally applies to me) that says, "i'd rather be hated for who i am than be loved for who i am not." Why would you want to be loved for pretending to be someone else?

As for shoes, they are awesome, but telling a girl you like her shoes isn't exactly going to make her think you're an amazing guy lol.

03/21/08, 01:27 AM	#31
Princess of KH Keyblade Wielder Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Wherever i am, i'm listening to Relient k or Anberlin Posts: 225 Rep Power: 2	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! O.O wow. Sorarules13, you've got quite a bit of advice on this whole topic...but that's a good thing! About the phone # thing, here's how a lot of girls feel when you ask them for their # for help w/ homework stuff: they think that you like them, because you could just call one of your friends for homework help, instead of her. Not every girl is like that, but it's really common. I'm glad you're starting to talk to her, though. That's good! Just make sure you be yourself, & don't use cheesy pick-up lines! Omgsh, i hate when guys use those on me. Cheesy pick-up lines can be the most annoying thing in the world, so stay away from those, & you'll be good. If she has Facebook or Myspace, talk to her on there. Those sites are great ways to keep in touch w/ ppl. It sounds like things are going good for you, so keep it up! Just don't try too hard - girls catch on to that (most of the time) & it gets on their nerves (that's if you get annoying). But i think you'll be okay! Another thing, just remind yourself that you are so lucky to have found someone that you like this much. I'm 15, 7 i don't like any of the guys that i know. I go to a private school, so i don't see as many ppl as other ppl do. I don't know a lot of guys, & the guys that i do know tend to be immature & act like they are the coolest guys in exsistance. It gets annoying, all too quickly. I'm 15, & the only guys i know that aren't immature are seniors, & we're too much like family (no, i am not related to any of these guys, just in case anyone was wondering) to go out. But, i really don't care about having a bf right now, & i've never had one (yes, i am okay & no, i'm not crazy.). All i'm trying to say is - remember how lucky you are to even have a girl that you like this much. It sounds like you really like her, for who she is. One last thing. Don't worry about messing up when you're talking to her. Like if you try to say something, and you accidentaly say something else. It's embarrassing when you do get tongue-tied or forget what you were going to say, but don't worry about it. Nobody's perfect. A lot of girls think it's cute when guys mess up like that. It kinda helps the girl be a little less shy, cause it shows that you're a human too, and it's ok to talk to you normally instead of being shy. (ALL humans mess up in convos - if you haven't yet, you will. Just wait...)

03/22/08, 06:40 PM	#32
Ninja Usagi Twilight Knight Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Geneva, Illinois Age: 17 Posts: 942 Rep Power: 5	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! You shouldn't say you love her AND that she's perfect in one falling swoop. That's just stupid. Believe me...I know. << Just make sure you TALK to her a lot before doing this. If things go out right, you become friends. Then invite her to go out with friends and stuff. If that works out, go out alone.

03/23/08, 04:30 PM	#33
Jet lol sup? Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,821 Rep Power: 5	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! YOur stepping up in the world,dude.BUt,as others have said,be yourself.Chill.Who knows,keep up how you are doing now,and you might have a girlfriend:D

03/24/08, 05:13 AM	#34
Charlie K Golden Knight pssshh, Im Charlie K! Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: The Dark Age: 15 Posts: 3,488 Rep Power: 5	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! Tell her she has nice shoes.Not even kidding, I todl I girl she had sweet shoes, we dated for..4 months or so..It was.. well weird but epic..If that doesn't work, just follow her, but not in a creepy way, normally follow..and..wait... Shit your 14, I thought it said 11...NVM, except the shoes thing.Shoes are awsome.They are.

03/26/08, 08:54 PM	#36
Forever Atlas The World Rests On Me Join Date: May 2007 Location: In your eyeball Age: 21 Posts: 3,009 Rep Power: 7	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! lolz shoes. compliment anything about a girl in a good way, not creepy lol and of course she'll like it.

03/28/08, 04:10 AM	#37
Ninja Usagi Twilight Knight Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Geneva, Illinois Age: 17 Posts: 942 Rep Power: 5	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! Uh...why shoes? What if the girl doesn't give a shit about her shoes? Compliment her shirt or something in plain sight. If she wears a clip in her hair say her hair is nice.

03/28/08, 04:13 AM	#38
Pelafina we can't stop here Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 3,095 Rep Power: 8	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! F*ck yeah, shoes. Complements on her clothing are good though, just don't go overboard with it.

03/28/08, 08:22 PM	#39
Princess of KH Keyblade Wielder Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Wherever i am, i'm listening to Relient k or Anberlin Posts: 225 Rep Power: 2	Re: Not another relationship thread!!! I really don't think it matters if you tell her you like her shoes or not. If she's good at discerning, she'll know if you mean it or not, & you shouldn't lie anyway, so don't think you HAVE to compliment her shoes! It's not the world's best pickup line or anything! & don't compliment her if you don't mean it. THat's a total lie & girls DON'T want to be lied to. Who wants to be lied to, honestly? Be yourself & you'll be ok! THere's a quote (one of my favs cause it toally applies to me) that says, "i'd rather be hated for who i am than be loved for who i am not." Why would you want to be loved for pretending to be someone else? As for shoes, they are awesome, but telling a girl you like her shoes isn't exactly going to make her think you're an amazing guy lol.

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