homosexuals and bisexuals?

[gottaluvkh1992]

hey sorry i dont go on much

i have 2 bfs lol we're in a 3 way relationship but the problem is their in America and im here in sucky England

[jrock907]

lucky you, you can find someone. I'm not hating or anything, but I don't even know who to go for... well since I'm in 8th grade and sbout to go to high school, everyone is asking the sexual preference question and it's been gettin on my nerves cause I don't really know. when I tell people that they automatically assume I'm gay and they use it as an insult. My best friend is gay and it seems like its effecting him more than me. he usually asks people why they see being gay as an insult. well what I need is some advice on what I need to do to find out/ comfort my friend...

[gottaluvkh1992]

lucky you, you can find someone. I'm not hating or anything, but I don't even know who to go for... well since I'm in 8th grade and sbout to go to high school, everyone is asking the sexual preference question and it's been gettin on my nerves cause I don't really know. when I tell people that they automatically assume I'm gay and they use it as an insult. My best friend is gay and it seems like its effecting him more than me. he usually asks people why they see being gay as an insult. well what I need is some advice on what I need to do to find out/ comfort my friend...

yeah kids can be heartless some one at my school keeps saying "Sam are you bi?" and i just ignore him until recently i said "why you interesed?" and a boy went "wow you tell him" but maybe i know its nasty but dont be open homosexual just say straight i know you probably dont want to pretend to be straight but in the end it will ave you a lot of trouble

[nelly <3]

I know what you mean Gottaluvkh1992

I played it straight for such a long time, that recently when this school started... (well, more as time had passed by) It became more and more obvious that I like girls.. so this year, I admit to people.

jah...

so, how are things going one with ur 2bfs?

I just broke up with my gf last week... It was my decision, nothing to be sad about. We're just better off being as friends.
She wasnt the right girl for me. Heck, she was too good. lol.
But... It's just I have my eyes set for this one other girl... dk what her name is, but she's in choir and she is beautiful! she takes my breath away, lol.

[jrock907]

Well thanks I guess, that wasn't really advise but thanks anyway. O bty I finally saw sknis 3 days ago on youtube and I've been addicted ever since. I've been staying up till like 4 in the morning watching episodes. My favorite characters r definitely Maxxie and Chris. saldy, youtube doesn't have a couple episodes that r apparently important...

[gottaluvkh1992]

youtube is crap for it, and omg in the 2nd episode of series 2 maxxie has a stalker and she goes into his room and he gets home so she hides under the bed and it takes all his clothes off and gets into the bed and you see his bum lol.

im so lucky im friends with his gf :D

[Nintandy]

Well Sam's right, there's no need to publicise yourself =] just be who you are. Still.. two boyfriends, that's.. odd. Unless all three of you love one another. I'm still against net dating, but hey, I hope that goes well for you.

About Skins, last episode was really odd with Tony, not one of the better ones I found x.x. Maxxie and Chris are two of my faves also [wonder why haha], but you have to feel some sympathy for poor Sid x.x. I also had a long hate for Sketch, until she started to show some form of compassion. Turns out she's still a manipulative cow. Lovely!

-- Andy

[nelly <3]

D: I thought your relationships were in rl.

Well, today I met 2 girls in a school far away (I was there for Concert Band Comps) anyways.
Damn. It was just a hookup with both.
At first this one girl (jessica) started came up to me, started to talk, get to know each other and then we went to the auditorium to watch other bands perform and some things happened in the middle of the first song. D:
but it's ok cuz i let her. :P
Anyways, the other girl (melinda) was our chaperone for the band. she wouldn't take her eyes off of me (she herself was also pretty damn hot) anyways. after our performance i supposedly had to go "back upstairs to get another reed" but ended up making out with melinda in the choir room.
and then after that i went to go sightread with the rest of the band, afterwards we went to lunch. pretty cool cuz i ended up hanging out with both jessica and melinda. it turns out that they're both best friends, jessica told melinda and melinda took interest.

i <3 hookups.
it turns out about half the girls of La Ca&#241;ada HS are lesbians or bi.
i should transfer there next year.

[jrock907]

good for you. if you think you should, go and transfer there and by happy, but hopefully u can say goodbye to your old 1. when it comes to changing schools or anything like that, make your where your going won't be too different and that when u r leaving is easy to say goodbye to. I had to learn that the hard way. I was forced to leave my old school 3 years ago that I had been at for like my whole life. luckily I have been at a private school my whole life so im used to "small" amounts of classmates, but it was like a lower to lower-middle class school to a upper class school. not an easy change, especially getting over the way people dressed and how they looked at me and what I wore... also there was all this assuming about I have this and that...

[Nintandy]

Ouch that's tough =[ I've never had to move house, let alone school. It's good you can have people who can respect you though. As long as you know who you are, and others can understand that, you should be fine. In the end, the people who complain.. it's their problem. Enjoy life =D.

-- Andy

[jrock907]

Thanks. adjusting wasn't the easiest thing to do (I still am trying to). The main problem with adjusting is what I was taught to believe while I was at school (like guys aren't supposed to wear pink, wearing abercrombie, hollister or anything like that made you a spoiled rich kid, stuff like that). So since I thought that stuff was true I went to that school believing that, and made a bunch of kids cry... I still haven't got used to they "unwritten rules" like having to wear a "thermal" every thursday and never to match clothes. so naturally when they do stuff like that I think their crazy. And alot of the other "rules" get me in trouble w/ other people in my grade... apparently I can't hang out with a couple people because they don't go to some country club...

[Nintandy]

We have uniform at school where I go, so there's no prejudice in terms of clothing.. I think that's one of the reasons we wear it, as well as to maintain our standards x.x.

Don't let pressures get to you too much. They aren't set in stone, people just think they are. And what people think, well.. it's never always true. You are who you are after all =).

-- Andy

[gottaluvkh1992]

i have uniform as well, and ive always been in my school and the people who have been there from year 7 (grade6) which is the yea we go there, to year 11 whenwe finish are called the originals. I love my school and never want to leave im glad i have never moved while in my school life.

[jrock907]

I hope my school never gets a uniform. that would really suck for me... I wouldn't have been at mad changing schools if my parents didn't tell me the day I had to go test to get in over the summer. since they waited that late to tell me, I didn't really have time to tell my friends bye and I didn't get to pull my prank I was working on for so long!! :( I have been at my new 1 for 3 long, exhausting, endless years and this 1 is almost over :). the only problem I really have is the fact that I can't do anything to them (punch,kick, threaten, etc...) because they would tell on me (and they have) and I am the one that ends up in trouble. not fun. the most annoying thing they do is when they act like their from the ghetto. they say crap like "im so hood" "i'm from the ghetto" and shit like that and they r some of the richest kids in my city...

Luckily, when it comes to shanking and shoving (little fights) I can't get in much trouble if I didn't start them because I am 1 of 9 black kids in my whole grade. I know it sounds weird, but if they get rid of someone for fighting back and the white person that started it gets to stay, it makes a BIG impact. it happened last year. a white guy said the nword to somebody in offense and got pushed down the stairs by the person he offended. the black guy that got offended got suspended for like 4 days during the test week and nothing happened to the white person except the head of school said "don't do it again". the school got sued or something like that. at least we got out of school for a whole week because of it XD

[Nintandy]

That's so surreal, I mean if you're 17 and people are acting like that, they really ought to just grow up. They have lives to be getting on with. Damn, sounds like there's a lot of violence where you go =[. I think the school needs to find better ways of keeping control, or at least teaching the students to co-operate.

-- Andy