would you forgive someone who cheated?

[x_heartsbreak_x]

just wondering >.<

becuase i think its time for me to let go& try to forgive;;
not for HIM. for MYSELF- because holding on ruins my days.

yeahs uhm so would you?
he said some pretty hurting things like... "just wait. we'll be together one day. ilyy" to the other girl and all... ditching me& lying to me. egggh yeah you know the story i guess.


this is the first time this ever happened. advice would pwn. i cant sleep >.<


Ps. when you do get cheated on, dont you just HATE the fact while you were crying your heart out, worried& all at home, the other one was laughing, having fun, cheating on you? >.>

[Axel Owns]

you should forgive him. it'll help you feel better, i promise. :D

but i would definitely not go back out with him or anything. cuz that's just asking to get stabbed in the back again.

but really, forgiveness will help you feel a lot better. you don't have to tell him you've forgiven him (if that is just a tad akward), just make sure you know in your heart that you have.

lifts a lot of pressure off :D

[DarkCreature2]

I've been there. I was cheated on before too.But it if you want to my advice, just move on and forget what happened. You can't let this get to ya. I mean you said your turning into an emotional wreak. Just forget and start off with someone else. And if your old BF wants you back just say no to him. Make him feel bad if he drags his tail back between his knees and beg to you to take him back.

[TheMuffinMan]

14 year olds shouldn't be dating anyway.

[Axel Owns]

Originally Posted by TheMuffinMan

14 year olds shouldn't be dating anyway.

so true.

dam... how do you even cheat when you're 14?

that's just crazy :/

[Gavin]

Originally Posted by x_heartsbreak_x

yeahs uhm so would you?

No, the slut could choke on a c*ck for all I care.

But seriously, you're only fourteen, and yet you let it bother you so much?

[*~NeoAdamus~*]

yeah.....too young for this mess. too young for a serious relationship altogether

now if it were marriage, then that'd be a whole nother level

[kazukifafner]

Would I forgive her? Yes

Would I continue to be with her? No

Try not to let it bother you so much. I know it seems difficult now, but I gaurentee that in the future, you'll look back on this and say, "Why did I get so upset over that loser?"

[Ningacom]

Originally Posted by TheMuffinMan

14 year olds shouldn't be dating anyway.

this.

If a dude says he "loves" a chick when they're dating in Junior High/Early High School, he just wants some *****.

You'll get over it

As for if someone cheated on me, I'd just be pissed that they didn't respect me enough to just say to my face "I wanna **** someone else, sorry", and then get over it.

[Gavin]

Originally Posted by Ningacom

If a dude says he "loves" a chick when they're dating in Junior High/Early High School, he just wants some *****.

Hell Yeah! Yum yum!

But seriously, relationships, aren't worth it at your age, live your life like a little flirt and you'll have all the boys leeching off you, and the guy that did cheat on you will be very jealous. XD

[*~NeoAdamus~*]

now that i think about it, if my girl cheated on me, id simply ask if i could cheat in return.

then we're even

[Leonard]

It would really depend on what kind of person she is.

And if I'd know her good enough to be able to say if she's likely to do it again or not.

Depending on that I'm pretty sure I'd be able to offer a second chance. Things like that can happen out of several possible reasons, and maybe one should try to see it from the perspective of the partner first before making hasty judgements straight away.

But again, this depends on the type of person, imo.

[*~NeoAdamus~*]

eh Love, or at least what we call it now, is so complicated

[Xinjust]

If he cheated on you, and whats more, told the other girl those things; Then he wasn't worth it in the first place. Now, you can forgive and try to forget. Or, you can move on to someone better deserving of you. ((Though 14 seems a little underdeveloped in the first place to be dating.)) If he had the nerve and heart to go kiss on another girl, then all he wanted from both of you was pleasure. Chances are you'll forgive, but you won't forget. If you're really cautious about it though, maybe you should just end it before it happens again.

-IMO: Once a cheater, always a cheater. ((Though, this may not always be true.))

[Kaos6]

Forgive him if you like. Go out with him again? I wouldn't. Paramore: "Second chances they don't ever matter, ppl nvr change." Not that I agree with it wholeheartedly, but still, he doesn't seem worth it.