homesick D:

x_heartsbreak_x · 06-30-2008, 10:40 AM

grr. ok. im away to a different country right now for the summer. im staying here until August D: (came at June 18th) it hasnt been too long, but im realllly homesick /: (cant change the plane ticket now- summer rush ><) Lols, I WAS the one who wanted to get away from home& all, but idk... i just miss my friends, blasting music loud in my room, my bed, my DOG, my family even lols.

any advice to calm me down would be so great<3

Neku99 · 06-30-2008, 10:43 AM

well just think of the adventure of eating things, sleeping and eating some more hehehe

*~NeoAdamus~* · 06-30-2008, 11:04 AM

it's okay to feel homesick, but by the time you get older hopefully you learn to find your own comfort outside of the home your parents own.

a lot of kids or teenagers feel the need to leave home or experience something outside of home till the point that they feel like coming back home, unless the parents and such are horrible.

InfiniteTwilight · 06-30-2008, 10:33 PM

Well, while you're there, you might as well make the most of it.
Go to events, explore the towns and cities, make some friends.
Got a digital camera? Make a vid to send home or make something hilarious.
There can be plenty of things to do to keep yourself occupied and off the thought of home.

Eikre · 06-30-2008, 10:53 PM

MAKE FRIENDS, Go out and do stuff with them. Any of you got a car? Call some people up, and say "Hey, wanna go hang out someplace?"

Snow Candy · 06-30-2008, 11:17 PM

Going on vacation is like a good except and I'd say take the time to relax, enjoy the fresh air (if your going outside), make new penpals and stay in touch if your a socializer, go to the best-good sites by where your going, go shopping (if you love shopping), do something that will kill time if your vacation is boring, remember fond memories, and be thankful, your vacation (unless its bad, then sorry). Hope this helps and I hope you enjoy your vacation, before you know it, you'll be back home! Just try not to think too much about home!

-Arcana-X- · 07-01-2008, 11:23 AM

LOL I had the same situation. I had to go somewhere for 4 days without my parents. First I was soo happy to go. But then when they had to leave, it finally struck me that they were leaving and I felt queezy. But then my parents discussed with me that I wasn't alone and when the day sgo on, you won't about home often if you keep yourself busy. Try to enjoy yourself, and you'll be home before you know it.

What I would do is just relax. Being homesick is from thinking too much of what you don't have..you parents..siblings etc. Think about what you do have. WHat can you do in the country now? Is there any new people you can meet? Explore on your own how the country is. If you're traveling with a group, try to jion the consversation. Trust me, when the time is over, you wish the vacation was longer because you feel as if you didn't do everything you could of done there. SO come on! Get off that bed and do something! DO some studying....welll maybe not..
Also, if you have a computer with FREE wireless internet connection, email or chat with your parents or set up a blog about your trip. Letting out your feelings with make you less homesick and if you record your journey, it's a wonderful momento to keep.
Being away from home is hard, so try to forget that u are in a different country and do the things you love. Vacation will be gone before you know it.

Dark_Seraphim · 07-06-2008, 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by x_heartsbreak_x

grr. ok. im away to a different country right now for the summer. im staying here until August D: (came at June 18th) it hasnt been too long, but im realllly homesick /: (cant change the plane ticket now- summer rush ><) Lols, I WAS the one who wanted to get away from home& all, but idk... i just miss my friends, blasting music loud in my room, my bed, my DOG, my family even lols.

any advice to calm me down would be so great<3

sounds like something i need to again, ANYWAY

enjoy this, this is YOUR time to kickback
walk the city, go site seeing, eat new foods
h3ll just walk if you need, YOUR TIME= STRESS RELIEVER
getting away from what brought you down, what made you burst into tears......thats what your away for, to stuff like that behind ya

talk to ppl here tooo if that helps =)

Kirby · 07-06-2008, 06:54 AM

Yea. What a lot of people said. You are going anyways..might as well make the most of what you can do there

Dark_Seraphim · 07-06-2008, 06:56 AM

definitly, just be safe and smart about it though

mesmerized · 07-06-2008, 03:55 PM

Well, you can

[1] Be miserable
or
[2] Enjoy it.

Number 2 sounds a little bit more worth your parent's money, don't you think? Besides, once you get home and settle in a few weeks, you're going to wish you were back out on your own. Its the freedom that you'll miss =]

Domon Kasshu · 07-06-2008, 04:42 PM

Find a man.

Bring him to your room.

Strip down.

Commence sex.

Deeman · 07-06-2008, 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Domon Kasshu

Find a man.

A fourteen year-old man?

**Guardian Soul** · 07-06-2008, 06:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deeman

A fourteen year-old man?

Well definately not somebody over the age of 18, I would hope.

Enchanted Rose · 07-06-2008, 06:30 PM

As people have already said, MAKE THE MOST OF IT, and exploit all the opportunities that you have.

Do anything and everything that you wouldn't be able to do back home.

Visit, explore, make new friends....
Be rebellious. You're parents aren't there to keep you in check.

etc.

06-30-2008, 10:40 AM	#1
x_heartsbreak_x Heartless Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Californiaaa Dx Age: 14 Posts: 5 Rep Power: 0	homesick D: grr. ok. im away to a different country right now for the summer. im staying here until August D: (came at June 18th) it hasnt been too long, but im realllly homesick /: (cant change the plane ticket now- summer rush ><) Lols, I WAS the one who wanted to get away from home& all, but idk... i just miss my friends, blasting music loud in my room, my bed, my DOG, my family even lols. any advice to calm me down would be so great<3

06-30-2008, 10:43 AM	#2
Neku99 Keyblade Novice Join Date: May 2008 Location: The roads where it is uncertain...or is it just dark here? Age: 13 Posts: 93 Rep Power: 1	Re: homesick D: well just think of the adventure of eating things, sleeping and eating some more hehehe

06-30-2008, 11:04 AM	#3
~NeoAdamus~ Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: あなたのお母さんベッド uh huh Age: 19 Posts: 3,207 Rep Power: 0	Re: homesick D: it's okay to feel homesick, but by the time you get older hopefully you learn to find your own comfort outside of the home your parents own. a lot of kids or teenagers feel the need to leave home or experience something outside of home till the point that they feel like coming back home, unless the parents and such are horrible.

06-30-2008, 10:33 PM	#4
InfiniteTwilight The World Begins With... Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: In a cereal box Posts: 1,383 Rep Power: 2	Re: homesick D: Well, while you're there, you might as well make the most of it. Go to events, explore the towns and cities, make some friends. Got a digital camera? Make a vid to send home or make something hilarious. There can be plenty of things to do to keep yourself occupied and off the thought of home.

06-30-2008, 10:53 PM	#5
Eikre W.S.N.B.M./O.N.B.P. Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Senior Leader's Course, Cold Lake Air Base, Alberta. Age: 17 Posts: 1,517 Rep Power: 5	Re: homesick D: MAKE FRIENDS, Go out and do stuff with them. Any of you got a car? Call some people up, and say "Hey, wanna go hang out someplace?"

06-30-2008, 11:17 PM	#6
Snow Candy Wishing On A Gray Sky Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Gongaga, trying to help Zack Fair find his way... Posts: 2,208 Rep Power: 7	Re: homesick D: Going on vacation is like a good except and I'd say take the time to relax, enjoy the fresh air (if your going outside), make new penpals and stay in touch if your a socializer, go to the best-good sites by where your going, go shopping (if you love shopping), do something that will kill time if your vacation is boring, remember fond memories, and be thankful, your vacation (unless its bad, then sorry). Hope this helps and I hope you enjoy your vacation, before you know it, you'll be back home! Just try not to think too much about home!

07-01-2008, 11:23 AM	#7
-Arcana-X- Ruler of Light Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: SEPHIROTH IS OWNED. FINALLY. Posts: 730 Rep Power: 1	Re: homesick D: LOL I had the same situation. I had to go somewhere for 4 days without my parents. First I was soo happy to go. But then when they had to leave, it finally struck me that they were leaving and I felt queezy. But then my parents discussed with me that I wasn't alone and when the day sgo on, you won't about home often if you keep yourself busy. Try to enjoy yourself, and you'll be home before you know it. What I would do is just relax. Being homesick is from thinking too much of what you don't have..you parents..siblings etc. Think about what you do have. WHat can you do in the country now? Is there any new people you can meet? Explore on your own how the country is. If you're traveling with a group, try to jion the consversation. Trust me, when the time is over, you wish the vacation was longer because you feel as if you didn't do everything you could of done there. SO come on! Get off that bed and do something! DO some studying....welll maybe not.. Also, if you have a computer with FREE wireless internet connection, email or chat with your parents or set up a blog about your trip. Letting out your feelings with make you less homesick and if you record your journey, it's a wonderful momento to keep. Being away from home is hard, so try to forget that u are in a different country and do the things you love. Vacation will be gone before you know it.

07-06-2008, 06:54 AM	#9
Kirby Keyblade Wielder Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: the basketball court Posts: 292 Rep Power: 0	Re: homesick D: Yea. What a lot of people said. You are going anyways..might as well make the most of what you can do there

07-06-2008, 06:56 AM	#10
Dark_Seraphim Organization Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Im in a box thats in my mind......sailing where ever i need to....... Age: 17 Posts: 350 Rep Power: 5	Re: homesick D: definitly, just be safe and smart about it though

07-06-2008, 03:55 PM	#11
mesmerized Ruler of Light Join Date: May 2007 Location: Chitown Age: 20 Posts: 593 Rep Power: 2	Re: homesick D: Well, you can [1] Be miserable or [2] Enjoy it. Number 2 sounds a little bit more worth your parent's money, don't you think? Besides, once you get home and settle in a few weeks, you're going to wish you were back out on your own. Its the freedom that you'll miss =]

07-06-2008, 04:42 PM	#12
Domon Kasshu 242nd Suicide Kings Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 2,045 Rep Power: 5	Re: homesick D: Find a man. Bring him to your room. Strip down. Commence sex.

07-06-2008, 06:30 PM	#15
Enchanted Rose Let's re-define. Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where you want to be Age: 19 Posts: 2,907 Rep Power: 11	Re: homesick D: As people have already said, MAKE THE MOST OF IT, and exploit all the opportunities that you have. Do anything and everything that you wouldn't be able to do back home. Visit, explore, make new friends.... Be rebellious. You're parents aren't there to keep you in check. etc.

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